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Hi all. I'm currently drinking nutrition shakes to build more body mass, so I've been lifting weights and that seems to be working fine. I also drink meal replacement drinks (but not actually replacing meals, just ON TOP of them) and I don't know if I should drink it before or after the gym. Or maybe both? Could anyone give some advice? Thanks?

Definitely neck and ear, I love nibbling, kissing and licking on my shoulders...fingers, licking toes drives me insane, around breasts and nipples, inner thighs...

I know my boyfriend loves hot tongue on his ear and neck, waist,

Yeah, I recently just applied to an online internship that needed a cover letter, and I just put the cover letter in the email and attached my resume. It seems perfectly fine and acceptable to me, as long as its neat, no errors or frustrating.

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I love it!

Hmm, I would think that your friends are a little close-minded, like other people said, and maybe they haven't been exposed to much. I don't have sex on my period because my boyfriend thinks it's gross. So do I to a certain extent, but if I really want sex, I could care less. Also, I don't let my boyfriend orgasm in my mouth because 1) I'm not sure how it'll taste and 2) there's something about it that seems a little...scandalous, lol. BUT that's just for me. I don't look down on other girls who do it and sometime I wish I could, but I can't! It awesome that other people can be so sexually open and limitless.

As a university student EVERYONE around me has Facebook except me. I don't know. I've never been one to be involved with those online journals/showcase of yourself. It's cool that other people are, but for some reason I've never been up to it. I've always asked myself, Why is it so important that I need to show off myself? It's a great way to meet new people but it doesn't feel natural for me... I think that's just me. It's just scary to feel that anyone can look at my profile and know stuff about me...

Very true. This happens to me and I guess this is the reason. It gets too intense that I just can't handle it.

Nah, he won't kiss me because his privates were just in my mouth, and I actually do understand. He'd be tasting his own pre-cum or whatever. He has noooo problemo kissing me passionately when I gargle with mouth wash though. But like I said, he just wants to know if other guys do it so it doesn't single him out as weird.

Yeah, I would absolutely never break up with him for something as petty as this. I do not pressure him, I respect his wishes to do so but I know that there are some homophobic factors contributing to the way he feels as zerohalo said. He also said he would need a couple of guys' other opinions so he didn't feel weird or anything which is why I'm posting up this thread. arwen, I think your idea is very very good. I will definitely try that one out ASAP. Also I have used mouth wash and he's cool with kissing me afterwards. But when you're in the moment it's sort of a downer to run to the sink and gargle because it's disrupting. Like I said, I just want other guys' opinions so I could either comfort him or be cool with it.

It doesn't really "hurt" my feelings because I know he enjoys kissing me and he pleasures me in lots of other ways than just making out. He just figures because his thing-a-ma-jig was just in there, he would feel uncomfortable. I just wanted to know what other guys do in this situation.

Hey. After I give my boyfriend oral sex, he doesn't like to kiss afterwards which is pretty understandable. But it gets annoying when we're trying to be intimate afterwards and we can't kiss! I don't think it's that bad for him to kiss me afterwards and he doesn't orgasm in my mouth. I have absolutely no problem with kissing him after he performs on me. So, what do you guys think? Is it ok, or not?

That's what I feel zerohalo. I want the meds to be the absolute last resort!

Thank you very much. I'll keep you updated if I do decide to take the Zoloft.

Well, I have read some things about Zoloft and honestly, it's scaring me and I don't know if it's worth the risks/side effects. I want to talk to my doctor more about this before I start taking it. She started me off with 25mg. Also, I think I do live in a very stressful environment. I too live with a someone abusive/drunk person. Though he rarely causes any harm, the emotional/mental toll it has taken on is completely ruining and stressing me out. It's hard to get away because I'm only 19. I feel trapped but now I am considering taking Zoloft (after I talk to my doctor more of course). I realize though that taking Zoloft is NOT going to make my problem go away. *whimper* I don't know how to get out!

Hi, thanks for responding. I suffer with both obsessions and compulsions and I went to see my family doctor about this, hoping she would refer me to a therapist or psychologist. But thanks for giving me the links, I'm checking them out right now.

Hello, this thread is somewhat comforting in an unusual way. I'm 19, turning 20 and I don't know WHY I am suddenly feeling this way; suddenly incredibly sad and alone..it's probably what Dako said in his first post, about being young with no direction, things are changing, lack of money and so on. School is perhaps the worst for me. I can't stand being under someone else's imposing time and strict university rules. I thought this was supposed to be a learning process but they herd us into one huge room and tell us we either get it, or don't. And I love learning too. Just on my own. "I was born intelligent but education ruined me" haha. Anyway, I am now dealing with an obsessive compulsive disorder and anxiety problems. My doctor handed me a prescription for Zolof and if she thinks I'm going on that crap after a 5 minute consultation with her then she's on drugs herself. I'm trying to get help but I don't have any money for therapy and it's kinda costly, and right now I'm looking for free councelling with no luck. Plus my living situation sucks. That's enough for now.

Hello again, I am having yet another problem. I have OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) and some anxiety problems. I told my doctor about it today and it was incredibly hard to talk about. She pretty much handed me a prescription of Zolof (an anti-depressant) in a matter of 7 minutes. She was as cold and sterile as the rest of her office. I DID NOT want to resort to drugs. I know the side effects can be absolutely horrible, especially the withdrawal syndrome. I know if I just had someone to talk to about this without feeling embarrased I would be okay! There are some other causes to my anxiety problems and it's so complicated. I don't want to explain it because I already know the solution. But the OCD is just plain annoying! I think some therapy and councelling would be great for me. I just need support. However, I don't have any money for therapy and everything in Toronto is costly. Does anyone know any places I could go to for help? I don't really want to talk to someone over the phone like Kids Help Phone. I need to see someone. I've looked at resources at my university but it's only academic councelling. I really need help. I am constantly feeling trapped and suffocated by OCD. ITS ANNOYING. Please, if anyone could give any suggestions for helping me find someone or someplace it would be so great. Also, if you have any suggestions for getting over OCD. Thaannkks.

Not saying goodbye to my father properly.

My best date was with my current boyfriend when we went to Niagara Falls and were very in love with each other. When we were Maid of the Mist near the waterfalls it was the best moment of my life, with him and I just holding each other.

Yeah, I was really happy when he started to panic. He even looked like he was going to cry but he turned away. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice and supported and urged me to stick up for myself.

Thanks, I agree with you Juliana. I'm happy to still have him in my life and I definitely knows he feels that same and he was actually scared of losing me that night, and he started to panick. But now I feel I do have more self-respect for myself since I actually had the courage to attempt to break up with him and do what's right for me. I feel as though I have more time for myself and we can both live a live more independent of each (which is not bad) while still keeping each other in our lives.

I talked to him about this and we're on a break for now. We have decided to "tone" things down in the relationship and a lot of other complicated issues arised. He said he didn't want this break and he didn't want to break up with me because he knows he'll never meet anyone like me again. He's confused about love and what not... So we're on a break for now and 'just friends.' It doesn't hurt as much as I thought it would.