hateithere
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I know what you mean, I haven't seen my husband in over four months, he left four days after we got married, and I haven't seen him since. He's in the military... it sucks, I feel sad all the time too. Can't help it, can't say much bc then he feels like its his fault... then I start thinking it is, and it isn't. Keeping busy helps to keep the sadness away. The problem is finding the motivation to do stuff that keeps you busy, good luck!
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Waiting for US is so hard!!!
hateithere replied to bassguitar7's topic in Long-Distance Relationships
WAIT IT OUT!!! Get a vibrator if you have to! It will be worth it. If you cheat on him you will regret it forever! Love him, wait for him. Too unsure, see other people.... remember that means he can have sex with other people too! -
My advice would be the next time you want to spend that much money thinking you might not get anything out of it... but a hott outfit and go to the club, have some fun, you will probably have more luck than trying the internet for love.
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YAY! he's coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hateithere replied to Yvette84's topic in Long-Distance Relationships
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -
wow! Obviously she doesn't want you there if she isn't talking to you... maybe she is starting to think of you as a stalker, or she could just be having problems, leave and see if she calls you. I don't think she seems to want much out of the relationship if she is ignoring you!
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In a realistic relationship, you don't start out having sex right off the bat, you atleast have to give it a couple of weeks, and thats when you see each other all the time. LDR you need to wait longer than that. I am married and I haven't had sex in over four months, its not that hard, we don't see each other, he is overseas. When you start a relationship it is important to first get to know each other and not put sex into everything else you are trying to figure out... you don't want a physically based relationship. She might have just thought you were getting too close too fast which normally results in big hurt. Or she realized she was infatuated with you, and now she isn't.
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My husband is in the military, we got married, four days later he left, and its been four months, I still haven't seen him since he left. I tell him I love him all the time, and it really hurts when he doesn't say it back, and I point it out to him and he will say he didn't hear me or something. He did tell me one time that I say it too much and it loses meaning... but I think he likes to hear it, and now that it has been a longer time with not seeing each other, I get to hear it a lot more. I think you can never say I love you too much , unless you don't mean it when you say it.
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vibrators are grrreeaaattt, get her one. As for you, you should be able to masterbate thinking about her, you shouldn't need to look to other women. See about surgery for her, but be sensitive when you bring it up... she will need to have surgery sometime, I mean she can't just not ever have sex... depression!
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What if you fall in love with a smoker? Can you really help who you fall in love with? Priorities are for when you are seeking out someone... I think sometimes though, you fall into someone. If I was actively seeking to be with someone I would want them to be: honest, easy going, forgiving, able to start up an intelligent conversation with the intention of me answering intelligently (just bc I have blond hair doesn't make me stupid), able to give up bad habits if things get serious... bad habits being: porn, drug use, strip clubs, slutty friends that are girls, guys that want him to do bad things... If a guy hits a girl, that should be end of relationship, there is no won't do it again... cheating can be forgiven up to a point... like once... if you are going to promise to be faithful, be faithful... partying of any kind should be done together!!! Then, there are no trust issues!
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yep, I broke up with the guy I married, before we got married of course... but I just couldn't see it working out, so I broke up with him, and was with another guy, and the guy told me he really could see up being something special give it time... and I said something along the lines of "u dont understand me, I love him not you" yeah, so I got back together with the guy I ended up marrying... we actually got married like two weeks after that!
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Women....is it common for you guys not to give blow jobs?
hateithere replied to Box Diver's topic in Sex and Romance
I don't like it! I only do it bc I love my hubby! When I was dating people I wouldn't do it... Why would we wanna swallow that? It doesn't taste good. Do guys like eatting girls out? My hubby said he does, he also said it tastes good... I wouldn't think so... -
Maybe he normally thinks girls are just after him for his money, but then why would he wanna show it off! I don't know, I think if he gets overly annoying dump him!!! Otherwise let him pay for stuff, that will be fun.
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Whats the point in marriage???
hateithere replied to Riggz41510's topic in Marriage/Long Term Relationships
Well, military-wise people do it sometimes because they get to actually be together, and they make more money. Religion-wise, looks good at the church if you are living together... makes sex ligit... Parent-wise, they quit freaking out about getting pregnant and what other people thiink. I think getting married is a good thing, it shows a person you want to be in the relationship for the long haul and you dont want anyone else, you are done looking, you will be there for them forever. -
If you love her, tell her you just want to see other people, but still be together. She is young and obviously isn't ready to just be with you. When you go off to college you meet so many new people. I was with my guy for two years, and I cheated on him, I told him I was ready for so many things that at the time I wasn't ready for... now we are married... not so long after either. College is a bad influence... maybe you could talk her into online classes. If you start seeing someone else she will realize how much she cares for you and wants to be with you,and she will have to just be with you if she can't handle you being with other people too. I know you don't want to be with anyone else, just fake it, it will freak her out!! good luck!
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Leave him little post it notes everywhere saying things like "I love you" and "ur amazing" lol... maybe if you try to be romantic it will rub off on him, be a relaxed romantic, don't try to make it serious he isn't ready for that.