Sky_Ronin
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Life is full of mysteries.
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Thanks Locke2121 and laboheme once again for your advice.
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I'm dwelling on the past again. Perhaps I should let go of the past and follow the winds of the future. However this is very difficult for me to do.
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Thanks guys for your advice. It's been a while now and yet I find myself still thinking of her from time to time. In fact I'm thinking of her right now. All I can see in my head is her smiling ever so brightly and beautifully. If only I can see her again..........
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Thanks everyone for your help. I wont forget your wise words. More and more I keep hearing about how it's not good to put a girl on the pedestal. If I treat her like any other girl then I should be fine huh, hehe. All I can do now is remain optimistic and hope for the best outcome.
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I can't stop feeling nervous because today is the day I have to ask this one cute girl out. If I see her at lunch then I'll ask then. If not then I'll wait for her after school. Usually she walks with her friends, so it'll be a bit difficult to get her away from them. The pressure and nervousness is building up and its running through my body. This sort of feels like first day of school, hehe. The thing is there's a 50/50 chance that I might have to leave town temporarily for a few weeks. So, I'm thinking if I don't ask her now then when I come back she might not be availabe anymore. I just want to find a good girl to settle down with and start a family with. My question is how do I calm down enough so I can be relaxed and confident when she's in front of me? Any help would be appreciated.
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I never said that he was her boyfriend. Plus, judging from the gap between them when they walked I'd say that they're just aquaintances. I hope she's single because I don't go after girls who are involved. Seems immoral and inconsiderate to do so.
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Earlier today I saw my crush again. I was walking towards the stop sign and she appeared out of nowhere from the corner of the street. She was all alone headed for school. After I noticed her, she crossed the street and got on the opposite side of my street. Of course I had the urge to approach her and strike up a conversation, but I got nervous and pretended I didn't notice her. Finally I made the decision to talk to her, but it was too late. When I saw her again in school she was walking with some guy. One word to describe me for today would be foolish. Has anyone been in similar situations and how were you able to solve the problem?
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True, shyness is more of a flaw. I can't wait for the day to come when this burden of a shyness of mine is lifted off of my shoulders. Then and only then can I breathe and feel alive. When your shy you feel confined like a bird in a cage. Of course it can be eradicated, but it takes great effort and patience. It is a process that wont happen over night. Occasionally, I too would drink alcohol with my friends and play video games (PS2). It's fun and all, but it would be great to have female companionship. Not just a female friend, but a girlfriend, a lover, your other half. I want to wish all the shy people luck in finding their partner in life.
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Thanks everyone for your help. I appreciate it. DiggityDog you're correct about the point that it's unwise to put women on the pedestal. Before reading your post I've never thought about myself putting any girl on a pedestal. I guess I did it without ever realizing it. It's true that they're human beings just like us men, but when you see your girl of interest a spark lights up in your heart. You zone out from your environment and zoom in on her. That's just the attraction process that we all experience at some point in our lives. A helpful source that I found in the past was David Deangelo's approach to dating. In it he placed emphasis on using the technique of, "cocky+funny." When I'm chatting with girls online, I have no problem being cocky and funny. The problem is when it is in person. It's a completely different situation. Chatting is kind of like a simulation and talking face to face is the real deal. One of my friends told me that I should be the person I am online and channel that into real live situations and I'll succeed. That's a great idea really. I've thought about it, but I have a hard time intiating conversations with girls in person. The dating process is so complex and girls are just baffling. However, it's exciting to be challenged.
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Welcome to the club shopvv hehe. Yes, you are not alone, I'm not alone because they're billions of people inhabiting this planet right now. So, why not go out there and let yourself be known! Let's all make an effort to enjoy life more and take each day as it comes. Caterina you should never give up and give in. Keep your head up and hang in there. Who knows, your knight might come and sweep you off your feet when you least expect it.
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Thanks Meow18 and chickidee23 for your advices. After reading your posts I have more confidence and motivation to pursue her. Yeah, I am tired of wondering of what could of, might of, etc. An equation with so many "ifs" isn't good at all. It's time I take matters into my own hands and control my destiny. Take my life back from the claws of fear. Just thinking about approaching her is making me nervous, hehe. Okay, 1...2...3...here I go!!!
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Today I saw the cute girl that I kind of have a crush on. She passed by me twice with her friend, but didn't say anything to me not even a, "hello." In the past she usually greets me first. It made me a bit sad and disappointed to not receive attention from her. Maybe she's tired of waiting for me to pursue her. She might think I'm simply not interested instead of acknowledging that I'm shy. Yesterday she came into my class and asked for a volunteer so she can practice giving shots. She's a medical assistant student you see. Was it foolish of me not to volunteer? In a way I do regret the fact that I passed up that opportunity. It was her first time in my class yesterday too. So I'm thinking that her purpose yesterday was to test me to see if I have any interest in her. Since I wasn't her patient perhaps that's why she's ignoring me. Girls are so confusing and unpredictable. I'm definitely lost now. Today's plan was to ask her out or at least engage in a conversation with her. Considering her mood today I might have to wait patiently for another day. What should I do now? Is it a good idea to talk to her and maybe ask for her phone number? I'd love to talk with her over the weekend. The thing is next week is my last week of school and if I don't act soon then I might not see her again and lose her forever. Unfortunately, I find myself in another predicament. Any help would be appreciated.
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Hi. I detect the problem lies in the way that you perceive yourself and that thereforeeee dictates your feelings. First you must eliminate your pessimistic mentality because it is like a disease thats sucking the life out of you. I've seen your picture and you're a cute young lady. You've been through some tough times and yet you're still here. That tells me that you're a strong girl. Don't be so hard on yourself. Enjoy life and live it to the fullest. My philosophy is to work hard and play hard. You obviously have been working hard so its only fair that you reward yourself. As for dating, you need to put yourself out there. Send out signals that your worth the love of another. That you're worth the time and effort for the guy to invest in. If it doesn't work out with one guy then move on to the next until you find mr. right. There's no point in dwelling in the past. One has to love oneself before loving another. That way you'd be a much more happier and radiant person. Its wise to always be optimistic regardless of what you're going through. Optimism has definitely helped me many times and it hasn't disappointed me yet. I wish the best of luck to you and your endeavors.
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Earlier today at lunch as I walked around I saw the girl that I like. It caught me by surprise because she came out of nowhere. So I was unprepared. It surprised me so much that I froze so bad that I forgot how to speak, hehe. I mean I'm definitely disappointed and frustrated with myself for not uttering a single word. She is the cutest thing I have laid my eyes on. The good thing was we did lock eyes. After she got into a car she waited for me to pass by it before taking off. So, at least I got a smile from that experience. My question is what methods should I utilize in order to defeat my shyness? I've tried talking more often to different people, but the shyness still exists unfortunately. Any help would be appreciated.
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As you all may know tomorrow is Saint Valentine's Day. There's this girl that I've recently begin to notice and take interest to. We hardly know eachother. On several occasions we would greet one another and that's all. Would it be odd to give her a Valentine's card and ask for her phone number? It's difficult to get her out of my head because she's very cute and seems sweet and kind. Whenever she's near me I get butterflies in my stomach. I definitely want to muster up the courage and talk to her in a calm and relaxing manner. However it is easier said than done. Any help would be appreciated.
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I meant to write, "HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A GIRL LIKES YOU?"
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Thanks Locke2121 and laboheme for your advice. I'll definitely take it into consideration. In the beginning I wasn't interested in her at all. After our first conversation my fondness of her grew from there. Now even if I try, I can't seem to stop thinking about her. It's so hard to read this girl. Could it be that I have an insufficient amount of dating experience? That's why I'm struggling to read her right? I'm certain that she and I locked eyes on Tuesday (2/6/07 on more than one occasion. She approached me to tell me something and gave a lovely smile. The smile lasted for a good 5-6 seconds. It was as if she was waiting for me to say something. Now that I think about it, I regret not prolonging the conversation. HOW DO YOU IF A GIRL LIKES YOU? I mean girls are so hard to read. If only they came with a manual then life would be much easier, hehe.
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The girl that I'm interested is really sick today. I mean she took the day off yesterday to rest up and get better, but the illness is still present. She's been coughing and having difficulty speaking. Poor girl. I feel sorry for her. So, I wanted to ask if it's a good idea to make her a get well card and give it to her before school is over. Would I appear too kind and sweet? I don't want to end up as the nice guy that finishes last or get stuck in the friend zone. Option "B" is to just approach and tell her that I want her get well soon. I've only known her since early January 2007. We only see eachother at school and have engaged in some conversations in the past. I've received three signals from her today: a smile, and two glances. Usually I would use my keen peripheral vision to catch it. So, I don't think she knows that I know about the glances. What does it mean? could it be that she is interested? Any help would be much appreciated. It would be great if I can get a reply before school ends.
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well, its hard to flirt with her in front of my classmates. Plus I get butterflies in my stomach when I approach her and strike up a conversation, hehe. My plan is to ask her the big question in private so my classmates wont be able to eavesdrop. How do I read her body language? What's an effective flirting technique that'll leave a lasting impression?
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So, there's this girl in my class that I find to be cute, sweet, respectful and kind. This is one girl I can't seem to get out of my head. The problem is I have a hard time reading her. We've made eye contact more than one occasion. Sometimes we would exchange smiles and laughs while we converse. I notice that she blushes from time to time. She would also look at me when I'm not looking directly at her. Like today, she looked at me while I talked to a female classmate and then again as I left the classroom. However, she never said, "good morning, hi, etc." when she was near me. On other days she greets me fortunately. Could it be possible that she is extremely shy? I know that she is shy just not her level of shyness. I don't know, she's unpredictable. It would be nice to spend some time with her this weekend and get to know her better. My question is, "how can I confirm if she likes me or not?" and, "should I muster up the courage to ask her out this weekend even if the signs of interest are vague?" Any help would be much appreciated.
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My situation is a bit complicated. There's this cute girl at my school that I'm attracted to. Occasionally I would see her in the hall walking with her friends or by herself. Oh how I wish I had seized those opportunities when she's alone to strike up conversations with her. The thing is I don't know if she's involved with someone or not. We made eye contact on several occasions. Once I looked at her and she blushed. Is it an invitation to come on over? What does it all mean? I would be lying if I said that her beauty isn't intimidating. However, every time I see her it brings a smile to my face and joy to my heart. I once read a proverb that said, "he who hesitate has lost." So it really made me think how much time I've wasted staying in the safe zone. I'm not getting any younger and it's either now or never. The problem is that I'm not outgoing and I lack confidence. At least I've made up my mind to get to her know. Eventually I'd like to ask her out. My strategy is to climb one mountain at a time. Take baby steps. It's difficult to develope a method as to how to approach her. Due to school and work I see her even less now. Fortunately, I saw her at today's assembly. The whole time she was a few rows in front of me, but I didn't notice her at first. She was scanning the room then she looked in my direction and smiled. I'm not sure if she was focusing on me or not. Should I ask her out the next time I see her? Or should I engage in small talk with her a couple of times before asking the big question? Any help would be appreciated.
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oh, I forgot about my question, hehe. My question is should I get to the bottom of things and find out if she has feelings for me? If you think I should then what's the best approach?
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If he doesn't call you or send you any emails, then why don't you contact him and take it from there. Whatever the results are, at least you gave it a shot. You will never know until you try. Well, good luck with everything quietgrl. I'm new here and I have no idea how to post my own questions. Any help would be appreciated.[/b] My situation is similar to yours quietgrl. This girl at my school asked for my phone number a while back. Then out of the blue she called me yesterday. However, I was foolish enough not to pick it up because the number was blocked. So, I had no idea it was her. What striked me was that it took her so long to call me and as to why she called me. There's no way I can call her back since it's blocked. This girl is unpredictable. One minute shes sweet and nice, the next minute she act as if we never met. For example earlier today she came into my class looking for one of my classmates, but didn't bother to say hi to me at all. In the past we flirted regularly when we used to work together. Sometimes I think she's just a tease. Girls are just hard to read. If only they came with a manual, then dating would be a piece of cake.