I get along smashingly well with a fellow female coworker I supervise. Third parties have remarked that we act like husband and wife. I would like it to be something more (I am recently single, as is she), but she says she does not want to get into a relationship now (but says it is possible down the road). Anyway, while she remains fun and very open to me at work, she seems reluctant to do things together outside of the office. For example, if we are somewhere on a work trip, she is more than willing to have drinks, go dancing, do the things that couples do. However, if it is not work related, she seems to have plans (and no, she is not dating). I take this to mean that she has set a somewhat natural boundary to limit our interaction, at least for now, to the work setting. I find it tough, as we are so close at work, but I am not able to see her outside. Do people think this is smart? My gut tells me that it is the right thing for her do, because a relationship would jeopardize us.