My story is long, but I will try to sum it up.
Before my husband and I were married he cheated, and I forgave him and we worked things out. Since then I have had trust issues, obviously.
Now my husband is in Iraq, (Army) and I found out that he was having relationships online secretly, with other women. (Also having cybersex.) I confronted him, and he apologized profusely, saying he had a problem, and didn't want me to leave him. He agreed to counseling when he returns.
Now he thinks that when he comes home everything will be fine, and I think differently. I know that while we are intimate he has been thinking of other women. (dont ask me how I know this one) I don't know what to do to salvage our marriage, or forgive him. I want to make it work, but I feel like he may just make me look like a fool all over again. We have a 4 year old and I don't want to break our family apart.
Please let me know if you have any advice.
