with my girl for about 8 months and we were talking about haveing kids and we actually quit use protection but within the past month things have fallen apart, we moved in together after only a few months and i think it was a big mistake, we both get cranky and i was a real * * * * * * * a few times nothing really really big just acting like a * * * *. i sayed some stuff i didnt mean and i told her i was gonna leave, after leaveing i realized i flipedout so i came back and wanted to fix things, i told her how i felt, and i bought her a $360.00 locket as a symbol of my love, she brokeup with me. things started to turn around a bit i thought, but she just dosent act the same, it seems like she hates my guts now all the sudden, she wont wear the locket. i just cant stop trying to fix things and i feal like i am pushing her away each time i try to get her back in my life, i am moving out now because of all this and she is going to have a friend of hers move in, a guy she works with. i dont really like that idea but i think its a good thing that i move out. on the 21st i got her a dozen longstem roses and a pound of chocolate(it was Sweetest day im not sure if everyone knows about it its like a fake valintines day) she smiled at me and gave me a hug it felt so great, but then the next day she was back in the i hate you mode. i told her this is it i am going to step up and take care of things, i am gonna work hard for us and do things right i want to start over with her and show her that i am the right guy for her i care about her more than anything in the world. we were great together and we love eachother
i dont know why she is acting so negative and why we cant get allong living together, we just fight about stupid things.
from what i know she has been in some crappy relationships and had some bad people treat her * * * *ty. if i saw those people now i dont know how id react because i think its affecting my relasinship with her, because i was a real * * * * a few times and i think she is thinking im a * * * *head too.
also i think she is scared of commitment.
i really am a nice guy i dont have much to give but my love and devotion, thats the only thing i have going for me, just a simple,honest,stand up guy who just want to fix things and start over fresh.
anyone who has any advice for me please help me out ...
what can i do? what would you do?
any advice i can get i will try to grasp although i will most likely just keep calling and sending flowers into next year trying to win her back. im just not good at this stuff i dont know what to do with this girl , never cared this much, usualy when Relationships go sour i just leave and dont try to fix things, but this time i want to win her heart again because i really think shes the one.
Help please
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