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  1. audrey
    Wow! I take my hat off to you Wise and deep words you wrote there, made think with my mind and give me strengh Lots of thanks !!! xoxo
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    hi amme lee, i had the same thing some times. it's no such a big deal when it's just some weeks after he/she lefts. sadly it can happens when you are in the middle of waiting for seeing your bf again. then it really sucks to be honest, i wouldn't recommed someone else to choose for a LDR if he wants my opinion about it. till now i can't understand how come i didn't notice how hard is it to be so far from the one you love. you get to feel so powerless about it. then love will be the only thing that can make you feel close one another. but at the ends it's what you choose and cause you're sure about that person. keep holding on and don't give up just cuase of some discouraging words cyn
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    lucky girl you eh you says only few months and your relationship won't be a long distance one. that's great. i'll have to wait some more than that, maybe 2 years from now. but it's ok cause there are many things that i want to achieve yet. till now it's hard to see that he's not here anymore. i was getting used to him. he woke me up in the mornings and we eat meals together at home or outside. to take the bus or a taxi with him. i think i just miss him a lot this time is not so bad anyways, i dont have to wait long 8 months like last time, it'll be just less than 4 months. that really makes me happy
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    It's only three days since my bf left after his third time coming here to visit me. same as the others times we saw eachother this time was so wonderful and i think even more cause after 2 years and 2 months of relatuionship you get to know the other one and to tolerate those things you don't like. we had a great time, even we both got sick last week it was sooo cute taking care of eachother was sweet. for me was hard to say goodbye at the airport, it's always hard but this time i felt it was a big pain. i told him everytime we say goodbye is getting harder to see you leaving so i couldn't help it crying despite he's coming again maybe june or july. i don't how many times left i'll have go through the same, anyways it's nice to be expecting for something nice too. how is it for you when you have to say goodbye to your loved one? hope to hear some answers
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    hi there, well actually i've never had this experience, but i can imagine how you feel. i have a LDR too and my bf is from Holland as you. you know this is one nightmare i have that one day he could do what your ex gf did to you. i hope not. i don't agree with her, she's doing wrong and i think you have to give time. if she said it's over and you are willing even to go to her, she'll feel like you're in her hand. i think you give yourself sometime to think what's the best to do, and who knows, maybe if you keep quiet for a while it'll come along that she's trying to contact you. it's not sure but there is a chance. to end, don't give her the impression you're begging her, if she really loves you she'll want to talk things over. i hope my advice helps good luck
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    thanks a lot Heretic, i like your advise. also i think you're right when your say people who i dont trust, they won't trust me and i dont want that. i really want to trust, but i'm just afraid that distance could get the relationshìp worn cause we can't keep contact farther than talking by phone. and time can also be unkind anyway i'll try my best, and i hope soon all this will finish thanks again.
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    the only ones i trust, are my parents and my best friend maria, i dont trust someone easily, i could say i dont even trust my own shadow :S
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    i dont know if every one in a LDR feels the way i do. many times i feel guilty cause even i try all my best, i can't trust my partner as i'd like to do. he haven't given me reasons to not trust him, but it becomes hard when there are more than 6,000 milles away. i'm so afraid that one day he will just dessapear, i mean that suddenly one day he stop calling me, and if i try to contact him he won't be there. also that distance could get things cold. i dont know if i can make it, but i really love him. i try to forget about it, im going to a gym in order to distract myself a little. anyway im still feeling this sometimes. a few question for you there...is it hard for you to keep trusting even the distance and time? how you make it? would you be doing good if you feel you dont trust your bf/gf? thanks a lot for your help
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    hey, you aren't that girl i totally understand how is it when you realize he's gone far after a gorgeous time with him. when i have to say goodbye at the airport i can't help crying and he does too. even while we are in the car, tears are coming out. what sad... but we feel also happy cause we know it's a new beggining to be looking forward for the next time we see eachother again By the way, you'r very lucky. you can see him more times cause he's not so far from you. i just can see him twice a year but we talk everyday and the fact that one day there will be an "end game" keeps me going on good luck for you!
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    me either,on one side, i dont like he's like that. and on the other one, i still love him and i dont want to end our relationship. after 2 years it's hard to throw out of the windown so many feelings. that's why i asked him for some time. i need to think about what i want. i know he wants to trasmit to other the impression he's very strong, someone who knows him really good told me. he doesnt need to show me that. i'm not someone to make him beeing in a defensive posotion all the time. i dont give him reasons to do that.
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    that's right syrix, i need someone who can deal with this sensitivity of mine. this isnt the first time that we have this problem. i've never deal with someone like him. if i see someone sad i'll try to say something nice to make him/her feel better but he as not like that. i really dont like this. neither i like he's so proud. he doesnt like to say a "sorry" or i was wrong. if i made i mistake i'm able to accept it was my fault and i ask him to forgive. but he seems to be very proud also he's kind cynic. after an argument he is able to talk like nothing happened. what i am gonna do?? he wont chance those things and i feel i'm very tired thanks
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    not value anymore
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    oh, i almost forget it, he will come to Peru in february for 3 weeks. see you audrey
  14. audrey
    hi Colors, thanks for your qick reply the ring was to show My parents he wants to be engaged with me yeah, i see him only twice a year it's cause we have a long distance relationship, i didnt mention that. that's why it's so hard to keep myself going on with this. you're right it's hard, but as long as he's comforting me with his love , i'll be OK
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    hi everyone, sometimes i think i'm such a bad gf, cause many times i think i forget about everything my bf has done for me. for some reasons, i feel like i dont trust him the same, but when i think about it i'm afraid i'm being unfair cause maybe i should trust in what he says. actually i have the problem as many girls have, im so much sensitive, so if something happens i just say : maybe he's gone but he's coming from europe to south america twice a year for me, he brough me to his country to meet his family. he was able to face obstacles when we just met. he bought me a gold ring to show my parents he wants to make a commitment and many many sweet things i'd never expected someone could do. please some help... i know sound weird, it's even for me after typing all this, but i can be sure he's serious?
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    all of you are very fast eh! well, i agree with you. it's important to have an end game as melrich says, actually i think that no one would accept something as a LRD knowing that there is no end to this situation. Also really important the visits, how many times you both are able to go to see the other one.i see my bf twice a year and we talk every single day, maybe those things are the key to succeding in a LRD
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    hi everyone, just wondering how much time would you like to keep distance between you and your loved one. i have almost 2 years now, and it have been not easy at all. But i really want to be faithful and i now it will. well, so what do you say? i'd like to hear some opinions
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    thanks for your advise, i'd like to think as you do shiznit you know is funny how guys don't make it a big issue but girls, we always seem to be the scared ones to be cheated by boys.( not in general, but more common) many times i laugh at myself, cause who started with jelausy was my bf. at that field i was so confident and maybe some carefree. i remenber he was so jealous cause he found me many times using msm for hours everyday or using skype, etc. when i knew what was bothering him and why was that, i just wanted to make him feel comfortable so i quieted doing all that. now he seems so fresh and not jealous anymore( at least not as then) but now it's me the jealous one i was thinking about this all day, and i dont want to bitter my days with this. i decided to get a "cold head" and to b easy. i mean, if he's cheating, it cheers me up that always truth comes out and lies die. i know sounds a little negative but i need to be some drastic for a while. i'll just enjoy what i have and the day i'll be betrayed i'll just leave. am i right to think this way? please i need some opinions
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    i think i should take serious that phrase but sadly sometimes i dont. well, my problem is that it just has to be something that maybe is so insignificant but it can make me feel insecure. many times my mom tells me that i dont have to be afraid as far my bf keeps calling me everyday, cause it means he's interested in me and if he would be cheating on me, he'd just say his exuses and to not call me. i dont know if i should feel better for this, but i think im so distrustful, i used to say i dont even trust my own shadow for that i think that b'cause my dad cheated on my mom that left something in me. i dont know, but i'm so afraid that if i continue like that, i'll just spoil everything. many times i promese to myself i'll just spend my LDR with my bf till i find out he's cheating on me. but sometimes it's hard to do please i need some help[-o
  20. audrey
    hi there, if your first relationship didnt work doesnt mean that it'll have to be the same in everyone you have. i totally understand you, not cause i had that same experience personally but my bf did. he was afraid that i could be same way his previous gfs were to him. like i said to him, you can't judge something/someone just cause after you'd been through a bad moment b'cause of someone everyone will be the same. give him a chance...and more than that, give yourself a chance
  21. audrey
    thanks my friends for your nice words, i get courage from them it's very hard lately to keep trusting. one hour ago he called me and we talked about yesterday. i explained to him the problem isnt that he has to do something else so we can't talk. the real one is that when that happens and i doing a big effort to call him(it's very expensive 1.50 per minute and cause he lets the voice mail even i didnt talk for that while, its already gone he never anwsers so i get the impression he doesnt want to be bothered by me so he set his cellphone on mute or with the buzzer this is very frustating. i also told him that i'm not happy this way and that he seems to not care at all and that's too much for me. its not enough with the sadness to not have him close but also to make me think he's not honest and respectful to our relationship. it's more than i can effort
  22. audrey
    some minutes ago i got an sms from my bf. it's says it's extremely busy at work and he's about to finish but he have to give a ride to his colleague to the capital city cause his friend's car broke down. that time there was 1:20 a.m. i dont know but i dont believe him. why he is willing to bring a colleague with his car going so far? and he many times said he doesnt have many friends at his work place. please i need some opinions, i'm getting bad feelings again it's normal or i'm being to much weak to not trust what he says?
  23. audrey
    you were supposed to move in february, there's no much left and he doesnt seem exticed when you ask him about your future together. i suggest you this him, dont ask him anything about future plans for both of you. instead you can tell him that you'd like to move abroad in the near future to live on your own. Dont say where exactly! just give some names of those countries you like. i dont know if it's gonna work, but you can try. maybe, when he heards you saying you'd like to live abroad but not in his country, he'll notice that you aren't totally enough stick to the idea to live with him. if he really is interest in you he'll have to worried and you'll notice it when he starts asking more about it. good luck...
  24. audrey
    hi missklew, one question; has he ever mentioned in how much time he wants you to move to live in his country?
  25. audrey
    hey mistical, its good to know that im not the only one being like that when this happens yeah, you are right when you say that your mind begins assuming. that's the worst thing you can feel. my bf always let me know if he's going to see a friend and that possibly he'll be late to call me. i like him to let me know. the problem this time was he fell asleepy, so no sms to let me know why he'snt calling. being in a LDR is in some way frustrated cause you could be afraid that one of you eventually will quick calling and will completily dessapear of your life. this is not my case yet. but people say anything is for granted.
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