T.A.M.M88

see here's the thing ive talkedto him about it. He used to run off alot, i mean once it was3 times in a week. Another he didnt speak to me for 3 days.. I talked to him and he realises that he shouldnt shut me out but he still does. Even when he says sorry for it it just still hurts anyway. i agree giving up smoking irritates him further, and more frequently but its mainly not to do with the non smoking, just things in general.

Ok here's my problem. I am in a relationship which has been lasting a year now, we fell in love and after a few months we moved in together. We spent all of our time together and still do. But over time it seems hes stopped trying to impress me. He owns his own flat and i live with him, but over time things have been getting very stressful. He has become lazy, and everywhere he goes he makes a mess which gets left there for 2 days or 3 days until i tidy it up; or what happens now is that i just do it striaght away because it depresses me to live in a mess. Im not saying he never tidys up, its just like 2% of what i do. Another thing is that he doesnt take care in his appearance, i mean his shoe fal apart, his clothes have holes in. The worst thing though He is moodier than I! Over the first few months he had a habit of just hopping in his car and running off to his house everytime he was annoyed. Now he just locks himself in his room as he has now! Another thing is he jumps to conclusions all the time, AND its so petty. I was talking to my dad yesterday about fixing a table we were giving to him, and he just got pissedoff and offended that i didnt think he could do it. Which wasnt true! I feel like this](*,) a lot of the time and i dont know what to do! I feel like im being shut outall the time and i think that im starting to be driven away and i feel like i cant handle it anymore. At the moment he is shutting me out because he is quittin smoking nd is annoyed for some reason but i dont know why. he has even lockedthe door to keep me out. I dont know what to do. Help?!