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When I was with my ex, I never looked at other girls. At work I never went crazy over the girls, or even at school. Yea if you asked if that girl is attractive I would answer but never like "I'd tap that". During the summer we had a lot of hot girls coming in the store, couldn't help but notice how fine they were. I admit it, not a good thing though but I have to admit it. But I never found any of them to be better then my ex cause my ex was fine.

hello everyone,

 

as some of u can probably appreciate, I hate being single. I go for a walk to shops, couples everywhere! holding hands, making out, with children (I don't want kids or anything)

 

I feel like I'm have my face rubbed in it because Im single. All the guys Im attracted to are spoken for, it's just annoying and I hate being single and I hate it when my friends start saying saying about being dumped and they'll never date again at least they have HAD bf/gf whatever!!

 

how do u cope?

 

LA

I see that crap all the time, all over the place. Now that I don't have my girlfriend it sickens me. I hate it. I see all these losers, these guys dressed like bums and they have the hottest girlfriend ever and I wonder, how come I cant get something like. I know my ex was fairly attractive but still I wonder why cant I get something like tat.

Not bad man, its pretty good.

But honestly, I know how you feel. I was like that last year and now I'm not. When I look back at and look at how my life I really had nothing to be complaining about. But what it was, was mostly school and graduating and moving on.

Hun, in the real world that does not always mean one isn't gay.

 

Oh, and welcome to the 21st century.. Kids having sex is the norm. No matter how innocent one thinks their babies are. (I was pregnant at 16.. Yikes!)

Well he could be bisexual, or he could just be experimenting. And now in the 21st century as you said people are starting to have sex more and more and younger and younger. Which I dont see why anyone is in the need to have sex at such a young age, its just sex.

Are you sure your son is gay? If he has a girlfriend that must mean he is into girls? Am I not mistaken? To me I think he is experimenting, or they were just talking about sexual stuff and got horny and wanted to get rid of there little friends. I didnt read all then replies but if they were just playing with each others/self "little friends" then he isnt really having sex and he cant get an STD

well thanks alot for this link and ill check it out

Hi there everyone hows it going? Now latley I've been doing some thinking, and I've realized that the money I will be making from my automotive apprenticeship will not be enough money for me and my girlfriend to live off (cause we are going to get married) including all the ammenities of the everday life + enough to open my own shop. So I came up with the idea of stating an events company. BUT I have no clue where to begin. How do I make money from the event I host at the local club? Will I break even or will it be a bust? Where do I start? So if anyone could give me some advice it would grealtly appreciated/

Thank you in advance.

You think I should add in if they dont stop I'm outta there and I'm taking my sister with me?

I can't talk 2 them. I fight with my parents as well, like we have our good days and our bad days this would be a bad day and in the end it would become a big brawl and my sister doesn't like it when I'm upset

I believe that, that is false information. Its his child as well he should have child visitation rights to his daughter

Alright her the situation. Just like any couple they have there problems. Recently theyve started fighting alot. Its pissing my off I'm fearing divorce. My mom only makes minimum wage, my dad has a construction business (which should be managed better but hes stubborn) so he gets paid when the job is done. For the past 3 weeks my dad has been doing some work for my grandpa which hes pissed off about cause my grandpa is a real cheap skate and has only paid my dad 300.00 and its practically a whole basement construction which this leads my parents to be fighting. Now there are a whole lot of other things as well that contribute but thats the biggest thing next to my dad complaining that my mom says shes looking 4 another job but she checks at midnight and send resumes days later. My mom is upset cause she thought when my dad took on construction as a full time job the money situation would get better but didn't it got worse.

Now this isnt healthy for me or my sister which I worry about cause she's only 11 (grade 5). Many nights it leads to me tricking my sister into going for ice cream with my girlfriend, going to my girlfriends house or to a movie/mall or arcade basically any place away from home. Now this really pisses me off cause I dont like this fighting I feel its going to lead to divorce eventually. Like I want to just grab my sister and just walk out on them both and say when we can be a family then we will come back. Also I also just drive around town like going up and down streets till the wee hours of the night when I know they will be asleep or I spend the night at my girlfriends house I need some serious advice, so if anyone could help that would be great.

So theres this new guy in school. We are sorta friends. He has a better car then me. Has the same interests as me. Now everyone likes him but they've like forgotten about me. Even my tech teacher lowered my marks from a 100 to 85 cause he's building a model car. Now all my friends are his, I have no one but my girlfriend. What do I do?

As good as this advice is its also bad. His aunt and uncle are concerned about him and his brother. Which you have to admit is good. If his mother is unfit and if he is having problems at home then he can not focus on his school workand his life. Now the thread doesn't mention what kind of things happen at home but in the end living with a relative may be the right thing to do and visit his mother on a regulary basis. Let me ask you this, if you stumbled onto some child pornography on the internet would you report it to the police?

Talking with your relatives is the best thing to maybe they can help without getting caught up in the middle of this.

I think its great that she has a caring child like you! I think your aunt and uncle and whoever else should butt out I would suspect that you and your brother are probably the only bit of stability or joy she has in her life...and to take you away would be cruel

 

Can you talk to your relatives about this? do you they know your thoughts?

Buddy theres no cure for it. All I can say is that the right girl will come with time. I went through a similar thing in grande 7 before I met my girlfriend (which I'm still waiting for). At the beginning of grade 7 I was you know being a nice guy and everything like you and that got me no where. Then I tried acting like a playa which was fun but not me and I didnt really find anything I was looking for in a girl. Then I just gave up then while I was DJing my school dance I met my girl and we are still together today.

Hi there everyone, hows it going? Now I am trying to help one of my friends out. Here's his story. He's done his application's for university and college, and just waiting for replies. Now the unviersities and colleges he has applied to are a few hours away from home. So he would be living there in their dorm housing. First year students have guarantee housing. Now he has a few concerns which worry him (and me cause he's a really nice guy and a true friend to meand my girlfriend [he sticks around through thick and thin]). Now the housing they have requires you to share a room with someone else, so that means he will have a room mate based on a questionaire he will have to do. Now his concerns have to do with his personal belongings and of course himself. What he fear is that he will be made fun of. He feels he'll be made fun of because of his computer. It is a bit outdated (367mhz amd k-6, 10gb hard drive, 192 mb ram, cd drive, 64 mb video card, and windows xp). But thats all he has which he treasures like and it does the job right? Yea. [i offered to give him some old memory that is compatable with his system and a hard drive, its not a big hard drive nor alot of memory but its something) But it will be a bit outdated compared to the other students computers which they will compare and make fun of him which it happens right now in high school. For his cell phone package, he is currently on pay as you. For his tv, It's a inexpensive 20" television (retail is 89.99). His radio, it is a cassette stereo with a/v input jacks for a external cd player or mp3 which he plugs in his portable cd player (like a walkman but its not a walkman its White-Weistinghouse one retail is like 30 dollars) and my ipod. His iPpod is a 512mb shuffle so he fears he may be made fun of it because its the lowest one on the assembly line or was how the lowest is the 1GB. His computer desk is a hand-me-down and is abit weird looking cause it is a counter-top on 2 night table style shelfs.

I dont know what to do, cause its really upsetting him like thinking of this. But he doesn't have all the luxuries that others have. (Which I can relate on 'casue I don't have so many of the luxuries that other kids have. Ok I have my SUV, that would be the only other luxury that I have that others don't.) Yes he has a fuly paid off house with food always on the table. But the way things are right now money is abit tight and he can't afford to go waste money on things like a new computer every two years or buy a more expensive tv.(Which is the same with me money in my family is tight but we make do) Should he be worrying about these things? Is there anythign I can do to like talk to him and maybe help him out. He's a really good friend of mine and me and my girlfriend care about him alot. So any advice would be greatly appreciated

You see its like this for me everytime I get something, someone takes if away from me. An example would be when you get a good grade someone else gets a better one, or when you buy a new car and someone else goes and buy a BMW or a Benz and everyone goes to that more expensive vehicle.

Even if I switch guidance counselors it wont help cause they dont really care, like some of them smoke and they go after every appointment to go for a cigarette. So its like I'm damned if I and I'm damned if I dont.

What type of financial aide? like a loan?

Im not familiar with GPA's sinceim still in high school but if you can tell me if itis equivalent to either 75% or if that 0.75 is close to 1%

Take a remedial summer school course and pass it, if it is avaliable

Alright, for those who do not know me I will introduce myself. I go by GLegend thats my nickname as well as my username. It used to be my DJ name when I used to spin tracks in middle school and in my first year in high school. Currently I'm in grade 12. I have a beautiful girlfriend that I love soo much, which I plan to marry after we grauduate. I love cars, I'm really into automotive I've done all the work to my Sliver '92 GMC Jimmy. I also do all the work on my parents cars.

All my life I've always show interest and a deep passion for certain things which could lead to me to have my life set (career wise), but everyone has always put their 2 cents in and always have made me change my mind.

Close to the end of grade 6 and the begging of grade 7 I got really into DJing and by grade 8 I was into music production. I bought all the equipment and I still have it right now works and everything and all the music. By this point I had realized that this was my calling and I was planning to get into the music industry but then everyone in my family somehow talked me out of it. This is how I met my girlfriend I was DJing the school dance in grade 7 and thats how I met her. So everyone convinced me that I should be a computer programmer, so they made me believe that just cause I could do computer repair. But then I realized I dont want to do that and I got into designing things but then they gave me the old one two that computers will do everything and their is no need to do that work. So now I've picked automotive well the past few years as a hobbie. So right now I'm planning on pursuing a career as a mechanic, but also I've sparked an interest in real estate.

Now it is coming time for me to apply for college or university. But I dont know if I should apply or not. No one can really give me advice. Like no one cares. Ive talked with my girlfriend about it and she's told me that she know I like all those and whatever I do she will always be their for me and love me. Unlike my parents. I've asked my mom to call her cousin who is a real estate agent/broker to find out what kind of education I would need but she always say yea and doesnt call. Whenever I talk to my dad he tells me whatever. So my parents dont really show any interest, while my guidance counsellor just says she'll get me the information but doesnt. So now I dont know what to do should I apply or not? Also money is kind of tight right now.

Excuse me, you claim thhat I bashed you guy. How so?

Is it a crime to be looking out for my cousin?

Any one have anything to add?

Well were going to see what happens. My dad got fed up with him last night and he's decided that he is going to talk to him. And ask him how can he sleep at night knowing that my cousin is breaking her back all day long at work and for what, for him to stay home and siton the couch.

But come on you have to admit over a year and a half and still not one interview thats pathetic. How can everyone else find job and can't. Is he someone special, no he isnt he is just like all of us.

I mean, what are you expecting to have happen? you talk to your cousin, tell her he is a lazy bum that needs to get a job. Then, a big lightbulb will pop above her head and she will say, 'Oh! wow - you are right - I never noticed he didn't have a job and was being lazy around the house! yeah, that's a good idea, I should tell him to get a job! why didn't I think of that?"

I don't exprect that to happen. All I expect her to say is ya your right and turn around to him and tell him he needs to get his act in gear and he needs to do more then ssit around the house doing nothing and going out with his friends and find a job.