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  1. MIKEDSF
    i am sorry to be blunt but why in the world would you want someone back who is addicted to porn and online chat rooms???
  2. MIKEDSF
    ok, in short, my gf and i broke up 1 year ago, although really it was only 8 months ago, she met some guy and started seeing/sleeping with him, i was devestated by this, after 5 months i met someone else who i started to see/sleep with, except i truly loved my ex. when she started seeing that other guy we were broken up but i dont think i could ever forgive her for sleeping with someone else. we have been talking alot lately and i think there is potential for getting back together but i dont know if i can get over her having sex with someone else. i don think i still love her,aand will till the day i die. i am 25 please advivse thank you
  3. MIKEDSF
    HI, DONT WORRY ABOUT IT TOO MUCH, HE ALSO SLEPT WITH YOU SO ITS NOT THAT BAD, I THINK YOUR ON THE RIGHT TRACK IN THE SENSE OF DONT SLEEP WITH HIM FOR A BIT AND JUST HANG OUT WITH HIM, AND SEE IF HE LIKES YOU OR HE JUST WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. AND BTW YOU ARE ASKING THE BEST PERSON HERE FOR ADVISE AS I AM A BIG BIG PLAYER, LOL. IF HE WANTS MORE THAN JUST A BOOTY CALL HE WILL BE OK WITHOUT SEX FOR A BIT. OR IF YOU JUST WANT SEX THEN KEEP HAVING IT WITH HIM...
  4. MIKEDSF
    hi, i dont mean to be blunt but you are crzy if your upset that you bf was watching porn, every single guy in the world watches porn, its only human. so dont worry about it, and dont be mad at your bf, unless he decides he wants to be in a poro!!!
  5. MIKEDSF
    HI, I JUST THOUGHT THAT I WOULD TELL YOU, THAT I AM 25 YEARS OLD AND until ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO, I WAS THE EXACT SAME WAY AS YOU ARE. MY FRIENDS THOUGHT I WAS CRZY BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO DO IT, BUT TO EACH IS OWN, MY ADVISE IS IF YOU LIKE THE GIRL AND YOU KNOW SHE IS CLEAN DO IT, BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY IS REALLY GOOD, AND YOUR GF WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT, BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD TRY AND THEN MAKE YOUR DECISION, THERE IS REALLY NO WRONG WAY OF DOING IT EITHER, JUST THINK OF IT AS FRENCH KISSING
  6. MIKEDSF
    ok, i dont know if i am insane or not, but me and my friends would go to this strip joint once a week for about a year, and the girl would always come and talk to me for like hours at a time. She always flirted with me but i just couldnt go for her because she is a stripper. She is 20 and i am 25 and come from very good family values, she says she has never beeen with a guy from the strip joint and i kinda believe her, she says send anyone you want and see if i will leave with them. so last week, i was in a shopping mall, and i saw her, and that night we went out, and alomost everynight after for about a week, she is so nice, wont let me pay, and i think i am starting to really like and i just dont know if it could work, she has been a stripper for a year and says she is quitting soon. so if anyone has some advice what i should do, cause i really like her but how can i go out with a stripper my parents would go crazy
  7. MIKEDSF
    ok, well i am 25 year old male, and basically i havent had sex in almost 9 months, and believe me this is not by choice, i just cant get a girl, and i guess i just feel i will never ever get one again, had a gf for 5 years. i dont even think people think i am that bad looking but i do ! any advise how to deal with this, and how to get a girl....
  8. MIKEDSF
    ok, this girl i met and have dated a few times, i really like, and i am 26 and she is 27 and always talks about sex. She told me she just wants to have some fun, and nothing serious, i have gone out with her 4 times, and have kissed her 3 times, i had her to my house and i am just so shy i couldnt even make a move on her, when i dropped her off, she actually had to say to me are you going to kiss me? and i did kiss her. now when ever i call her, she is very cold to me, and i ask her what she is doing tonight and she says she has plans.. she doesnt even ask me what i am doing, i am pretty sure, she is just looking for some fun, and now, she sees i am too shy, and she isnt going to get anything from me. so what do i do and say to her to get her wanting me?
  9. MIKEDSF
    ok, i guess i am a bit embarrased but, i was wondering i am 25 and broke up with my gf, i have dated this girl a few times and i think she likes me, i have kissed her, but now like anyone my age, i want to fool around with her, and have sex. is it too soon? and how do i go about getting her back to my place or fooling around with her? i havent had to make a move on someone in like 5 years so what do i do?
  10. MIKEDSF
    hopefully you can read some of my other posts, but if not my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and alomst a few months later she started to sleep with some guy, i am still devestated. but thta is just some background info, i finally met some other girl who i have gone out with twice, and all ready i think i am in love with her, i called and she called me back a day later and i thought i was going crazy, i was so upset that she didnt call me, and thought she didnt like me, she did call me the next day, i am so obssesed with finding a girl to get me over my ex, and so i feel more secure and not insecure, but my problem is i am so obssesed, i couldnt eat i couldnt sleep i was so upset that she didnt call, now take in consideration that i have only gone out with her twice and i am acting like this, am i crzy and what should i do ?
  11. MIKEDSF
    TELL HER, TRUST ME, ITS THE ONLY WAY
  12. MIKEDSF
    I am so tired of everything, my entire world has crashed down on me since she left me. All i do is lie in bed, dont want to go out or do anything, at the begginng if you read my other posts you will understand, i tried to keep busy and go out all the time, but i have given up, i would rather be sleeping then up. I dont think i will ever find love, and that is all i ever wanted, i did find it and now its gone, i dont even think i can get a girl, they sure dont look at me anymore, and all i can think about is sex. I think i am going insane@ any advise on what i can do? tnaks
  13. MIKEDSF
    OK, WELL I CALLED HER AND SAID SO ARE YOU STILL SEEING THAT GUY, AND SHE SAID WHY, AND I SAID WELL BASICALLY I DONT WANT TO GET INTO IT. SHE SAID WELL WHY DO YOU NEED TO KNOW. SO I SAID WELL BASICALLY IF YOU ARE STILL SEEING HIM THEN I WILL LEAVE IT ALONE, IF YOUR NOT SEEING HIM, THEN MAYBE WE CAN GO FOR A COFFEE OR SOMETHING, SHE SAID WELL I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU , I DONT KNOW, WHAT TO SAY, SHE HAS SEEN HIM A FEW TIMES IN THE PAST 2 MONTHS OR SO, BUT ITS NOT ANYTHING SERIOUS AT ALL, SO WAHT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN....
  14. MIKEDSF
    HI, I AM NOT SURE IF YOUR ABLE TO READ MY OTHER POSTS BUT HERE IS MY DILEMA. MY GIRLFRIEND OF 6 YEARS AND I BROKE UP BECAUSE OF ME ABOUT A YEAR AGO, BECAUSE I JUST DIDNT CARE TO SEE HER ANYMORE, OR SO I MADE IT SEEM. WE HAD SPOKEN EVERY COUPLE OF WEEKS AND GOT TOGETHER ONCE IN A WHILE. SHE TOLD ME SHE THOUGHT WE WERE TRULY OVER BECAUSE I KEPT ON REPEATING TO HER WERE OVER AND I AM MOVING ON, I WAS JOKING DONT ASK ME WHY I DID THAT. ABOUT 3 MONTHS AGO SHE TOLD ME SHE MET SOMEONE ELSE WHOM SHE HAD SLEPT WITH, SHE HAD ONLY DATED HIM A FEW TIMES, THE WEIRD THING IS SHE IS 23 I AM 25 AND I AM THE ONLY GUY SHE SLEPT WITH UNTIL HIM.. I TOLD HER WE ARE OVER NOT THAT WE WERE TOGETHER, SHE CALLS ME EVERYONCE AND A WHILE TO TELL ME SHE WILL LOVE ME TILL THE DAY SHE DIES, BUT RIGHT NOT SHE HAS TO CONCENTRATE ON HERSELF. SHE CANT BE WITH ME 100 PERCENT. NO I THINK A BOUT HER EVERY SINGLE DAY SINCE ABOUT 3 MONTHS AGO, I AM PLAYING A GAME WITH HER BECAUSE I KNOW TRULY I DO WANT TO TALK TO HER, BUT I THINK IN MY HEAD THAT IF I THREATEN HER THAT I WONT TALK TO HER IT WILL WORK, BUT SO FAR IT ISNT SHE HAS TOLD ME SHE DOESNT HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT IS SORT OF SEEING THIS GUY, I MEAN SHE HAS SLEPT WITH HIM, AND SHE IS DEFINETLY NOT A SLUT OR WASNT WHEN I WAS WITH HER. SO DO I STOP PLAYING GAMES AND HAVE IT HER WAY AND MAYBE TALK TO HER AND GET TOGHETHER WITH HER FOR COFFEE OR JUST LET HER GO, I DO LOVE HER VERY MUCH AND WANT TO MARRY HER SOMEDAY, AND I REALLY DO NOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE, PLEASE ADVISE SOON, DONT WANT TO MAKE A MISTAKE IN CALLING HER....
  15. MIKEDSF
    MY GF OF 6 YEARS WHO TELLS ME THAT SHE NEEDS TIME ON HER OWN, TO FIGURE THINGS OUT FOR HERSELF, BUT STILL TELLS ME SHE LOVES ME, AND IS HAVING SEX WITH SOME GUY SHE DATED TWICE. I TOLD HER I WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT, BUT IF WE CANT I NEED TO NOT TALK TO HER ANYMORE, SHE TELLS ME SHE LOVES ME, BUT RIGHT NOW SHE CANT. I HAVENT TALKED TO HER IN 3 WEEKS, AND I AM GOING CRZY WHAT SHOULD I DO
  16. MIKEDSF
    HI, I FEEL FOR YOU, AND NOW THAT YOU HAVE TOLD HER HOW YOU FEEL, ITS TIME TO START WITH THE GAMES, DONT CALL HER NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT TO, SHE WILL CALL YOU AND DONT CALL HER BACK TILL LIKE 5 DAYS AFTER THAT, SHE WILL COME RUNNING BACK TO YOU. TELL HER YOU JUST WANT TO MOVE ON IF YOU GUYS CANT BE TOGETHER BECAUSE ITS JUST TO HARD TO TALK TO HER, I KNOW GAMES ARENT THE RIGHT THING TO DO, BUT BELIEVE ME THEY REALLY WORK
  17. MIKEDSF
    JUST WONDERING WHAT I SHOULD DO? IT IS HER BIRTHDAY ON FRIDAY, DO I CALL? OR NOT? DO I SEND FLOWERS OR NOT? THANKS TO ALL WHO CARE
  18. MIKEDSF
    WELL, I SPOKE TO HER LAST NIGHT, AND SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME VERY MUCH WHICH I THINK IS BULL!!! BUT ANYWAYS, AND SHE SAYS SHE JUST CANT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH ME AS SHE NEEDS TO CONCENTRATE ON HERSELF RIGHT NOW, BUT SHE STILL IS SLEEPING WITH THAT GUY SO I FIND THAT CRAZY, HOW CAN SHE SAY SHE NEEDS TIME BY HERSELF AND SHE CONTINUES TO SCREW SOME GUY, SO I GUESS UNFORTUNATELY IT IS REALLY OVER , I HAVE LAID OUT ALL MY CARDS AND SO HAS SHE, I TOLD HER GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE AND LETS SEE IF IT WORKS, SHE SAID SHE CANT SHE WOULD LOVE TO BUT SHE CANT, SHE SAYS SHE HOPES I FIND SOMEONE WHO MAKES ME HAPPY AND WISHES THE BEST FOR ME, WHICH MAKES ME EVEN MORE MAD. SO I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I REALLY LOVE HER STILL AND CANT LET HER GO, PLEASE ADVISE THANKS SO MUCH
  19. MIKEDSF
    HELLO, I WROTE THE ARTICLE PLEASE PLEASE HELP, AND RE PLEASE HELP ME, I HAVE SPOKEN TO HER ON THE PHONE A FEW TIMES, AND SHE SAYS SHE NEEDS TIME TO THINK ABOUT EVERYTHING AND THAT SHE IS MESSED UP MENTALLY, AND SHE CANT CARE ABOUT ANYONE. SHE SLEPT WITH SOME GUY SHE MET WHICH IS INSANE AND SHE WOULD NEVER DO I WAS THE ONLY GUY SHE SLEPT WITH FOR 6 YEARS AND IT KILLS ME TO KNOW THAT SHE SLEPT WITH HIM. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I AM GOING INSANE KNOWING THAT SHE SLEPT WITH HIM, AND MAYBE CONTINUES TO SLEEP WITH HIM, ALL I WANT TO DO IS BE WITH HER, AND SHE IS WITH SOMELSE SLEEPING WITH THEM I THINK, I REALLY AM AT THE BOTTOM OF THE BARREL, AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO>>>
  20. MIKEDSF
    OK, I AM GOING INSANE KNOWING SHE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH ME, I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE, I WROTE A SIX PAGE LETTER AND SHE HAS NOT CALLED ME YET WHAT DO I DO? I LOVE HER SO MUCH AND CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER? THANKS BROKEN HEART
  21. MIKEDSF
    I DECIDED TO WRITE HER A 6 PAGE LETTER TELLING HER HOW I FEEL, AND HAVE NOT GOTTEN A RESPONSE SHOULD I CALL HER OR IT IS OVER FOR GOOD?
  22. MIKEDSF
    HEY, I WROTE THE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME ARTICLE, I HAVE LOST WEIGHT CANT SLEEP CANT EAT, CANT STOP CRYING, YOUR NOT ALONE, MY LIFE IS RUINED AS WELL....
  23. MIKEDSF
    I WILL TRY AND KEEP THIS AS SHORT AS POSSIBLE, BUT I AM 25 YEAR OLD MALE, AND HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL FOR 6 YEARS. I WAS HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HER, DURING THE LAST YEAR OF OUR RELATIONSHIP, I FELT LIKE I DIDNT REALLY CARE ABOUT HER AFTER SHE DECIDED WE SHOULD TAKE A BREAK. AFTER ABOUT 8 MONTHS OF US BEING BROKEN UP I REALLY REALLY MISSED HER ALOT AND KNEW THAT I WAS JUST PLAYING GAMES WITH HER, AND WITH MY OWN FEELINGS PRETENDING I DIDNT CARE. ABOUT A WEEK AGO I CONFESSED THE WAY I FELT ABOUT HER AND TOLD HER I LOVE LIKE KNOW ONE ELSE. SHE STARTED TO CRY AND TOLD ME SHE THOUGHT I DIDNT LOVE HER ANYMORE AND MOVED ON, AND MET SOMEONE ELSE , WHOM SHE IS DATED A FEW TIMES AND HAS SLEPT WITH. WHICH IS MY OTHER HUGE PROBLEM, SHE WAS THE FIRST GIRL I SLEPT WITH AND THE SAME FOR HER, I WAS THE FIRST GUY SHE SLEPT WITH. TO KNOW SHE HAS BEEN WITH SOMEONEE ELSE NOW, I AM CRUSHED. SHE TOLD ME IT JUST WONT WORK OUT AND SHE IS TOO SCARED TO GIVE US AN OTHER CHANCE, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE, BUT I KNOW I LOVE HER STILL SO MUCH, AND IF I DONT TALK TO HER SHE WILL STAY WITH THIS GUY, BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME ANYWAY YOU CAN, I AM SO LOST SHOULD I CALL HER SHOULD I NOT.... ANONYMOUS
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