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im also a Christian who is addicted to masturbating...the way i see it, masturbation alone is not a sin, but pornography or thinking if other people in a sexual way is a sin...so basically its not a sin, but it leads you to sin because unless your extremely talented its kinda hard to just masturbate and have a completely blank mind -hope this helped

no, thanks any ways the rumors died but a bunch of ppl still believe them

thanks guys...i also go to youth group with this girl (tonight ) and shes in the band, and when im done learning the bass then i can join the band. hopefully this will help me talk to her a little easier...and playing in front of a crowd is sure to help me gain confidence..and the reason i dont want to date a 9th grader form my school is cuz we live in a SEMI-middle of nowhere, and almost all the girls are wanna-be gangsters ect,ect and there were also a few bad rumors going around about me not to long ago now everyone in my grade thinks im perverted

ok im one of those sits-in-the-corner kids (14 yrs old), im not really good a talking to people so when i do have to interact with people (esspecially girls) i get wicked nervous and in church the other day i had to hold hands with this very cute girl that i like (shes 2 years younger than me my hands were like just pouring out sweat and it was so embarrasing , i could tell she wanted to get outta there...any advice on sweaty palms?and this girl, what should i do im in 9th grade shes in 7th, but ive never liked a girl this much before and im definitly not the best looking guy out there and that doesnt exactly help.. what do i do!?

i would probly stop calling her for a while and hope that she will call if shes still interested

try finding some no-nude sites theres plenty of them out there, theyre legal,its usually done willingly by the models,ect.

being turned down byEVERY SINGLE GIRL you have ever asked out totaly kills your confidence...trust me i know

well he probably wasnt making eye contct because he knows people find him unnatractive and has low confidence, he probably didnt mean to be a perv or anything by looking at your body

alright i decided i have no way of seeing her until she comes down i the winter so i think im gonna try with this girl i go to church with **wish me luck=)** thanks for the help

no one can drive me up there no bus (were both sort of in middle of nowheres) she is also 14...and now im getting confused between her and this girl from my church ,im kind of dumb when it comes to relationships (as embarasing as this is ive never had a girlfriend cuz every girl in my town is bicth/ * * * *)

ok my names brian im 14, ive known this girl for about 5 years now... she lives a 2 hour drive away,but the problem is...i cant drive yet, lets see thats about a 4 day walk.the only time i get to see her is some weekends and during the summer when she lives with her granparents. every summer i get the same feelings for her,just never gutted up to telling her im pretty sure she only thinks of me as a friend but is sorta hard to tell,i decided i want to ask her out but i dont know how to ask,where to take her...and one other problem, a few years ago she went out with my neighbor and they only lasted about a month beacause she had to go home and she HATES ldr's do you see this going anywhere