offshore00
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I know it doesn't mean anything right now, but your lucky she was completely honest with you and made it easy.
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If it's really a problem I would just wait till she's by herself. Her friend is bound to miss a class at least once!
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Ok i've gotten pretty good at getting a girl 'interested' just by eye contact. Try this: If your in the right type of setting, like a classroom or something, this is real easy to do. I wait till the girl is looking at me directly, then I look back with a some-what serious look on my face. I look for a good 3-5 seconds, letting her know, "yeah i'm looking at you." After good eye contact and been established look away and don't look at her anymore, kind of like you forgot about her. More often then not after that I see the girl glancing at me constantly out of the corner of my eye. Does anyone else do this?
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Bro you need to grow some cajons man. She had you from the beginning. You gave her too much control. Next time act much more distant in the beginning of the relationship, make her feel the way she made YOU feel... remember?
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I think i've got the find the right balance of alcohol in my body. I can drink like a beast. Usually at the party I end up being the center of attention because I can chug any liquor fiercely. I just need to get a buzz going and stop drinking..
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Too many responses from woman!! you need a mans advice
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I think telling her that you, "liked her" was a mistake. You should of kept acting relaxed like you did before the date, and let things get a little further on the next date.
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Hows it goin everyone. When at social gathers with tons of people and im sober, I'm naturally a bit shy and can't think of things to say quickly. However once I get a good amount of alcohol in my belly I change completely. I open up and feel like myself saying things i'd say if I felt comfortable. It might sound like i'm turning into an alcoholic or something but it's not like that. Anyone else like this?
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you guys are weirdos if you ask me...
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Excercise: Mental Rehearsal - Approaching Women
offshore00 replied to rekrapshyguy's topic in Dating Advice
I've found that having a snappy comeback or two set in your mind for a prediction in the convo, it can really pay off : D -
Breaking NC if the dumpee is 'wrong'
offshore00 replied to shikashika's topic in Getting Back Together
Is anyone full of regret after getting dumped like I was? What if you honestly feel you could get them back? She totally came on to me, basically asking me out. She then ended it only after a few days. I'm full of regret because I only had to say a few things different, and it would of changed everything since we barely knew each other. I just feel like another night with her could make it perfect because we had great chemistry. This feeling nags at me lingerly... -
harsh responses, all of em lol. thanks for all the advice redqueen, funny thing about all this is that she totally came on to me when we first met, it was all her in the beginning. Honestly the only thing that really bugs me about this is the fact that she won't return my calls, frustrating...
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since your a lady, maybe you can help me undersand why she's not being honest when I ask her to be? she's not not a bad person.. in my mind i'm thinking it's because she want wanna hook up sometime in the future again, does that sound right?
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one of the last things she said to me was, just because it didn't work out this summer doesn't mean it won't next. I dont know if she's trying to let me down easy or something, I told not her to bother with that bs and just tell me how it really is, but she never changed what she said. idk I can move on. But honestly I think we have a good connection, good chemistry. Just had a rough start..
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Yeah I know you are right. But if we had a chance I know we could have somethin good. You dont think there is any truth to the 'detaching' thing? How do you think she should of reacted if she was diggin me? Continue to see me until she left for school? thanks for all the replies btw.
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yeah it totally sucks. knowing her, i'm predicting she's gonna show up next summer and wanna chill. Time to see how she reacts to an ** hole
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, all I can say. I guess I sent out mixed signals, I mean, in the end its was really all my fault. I did make any serious moves, but it's kind one of those things were its the desire thats eating me up. When i'm with her the desire to just grab her and kiss her is not as strong as it is when i'm not with her if that makes sense. what clue gave it away that she's over it? *mind you guys we never had sex
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sounds like hes really shy
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Hows it goin everybody. I'm in a situation I would like some opinions on. Me and this chick hooked up a couple times in the past but never really got too serious. Mainly cause of me I guess. She now lives 10 hours away at college. Anyways this summer we hooked up again and I totally just fell for her, I dont think I love her but I really really really like her. I dont know what the hell happened, she has me mesmermized now. So we mess around maybe twice this summer, then she goes out of state for two weeks. She comes back and says she doesn't wanna see me anymore. She was going to be intown for only two more months. She said she missed me a lot while she was away and since we can't have a relationship, (because she lives far away) she said and I quote this, wants to "detach" herself from me. So do you think there is some other hidden reason she did this? She wont even answer my calls, completely ignoring me basically. She doesn't live here now so I guess it makes things easier, but I feel like chasing after her but I know thats not a good idea. any opinions please..