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Im Just Alittle Curious To Know What This Means. Back When Me And My Ex Were Dating We Broke Up A Couple Of Times. Well, Each Time We Broke Up She Would Go Back To A Ex For Comfort I Guess. At Least Thats What She Told Me. The First Time Really Didn't Mean Much I Guess It Was Early In The Realationship. The Second Time Is Different She Went To An Ex's House Late One Friday Night, We Where Broke Up At This Time For A Couple Of Days. Well, I Decided That I Wanted To Work Things Out And Went To Her House And She Wasn't There. I Went Everywhere Looking For Her, I Was Getting Alittle Worried Then I Found Her At His House. Now Its 2 In The Morning. Well, I Went Up To The Door And Knocked And It Took Them About 10 Mins To Answer The Door, And When They Finally Opened The Door His Friends Were Running Over To Meet Him From Down The Street. She Said She Was Watching A Movie In His Room And That Was It. Hard For Me To Believe, But She Sticks By It Til This Day. Well, We Got Back Together,but He Kept Texting Her And She Would Not Tell Him To Stop. Also A Older Guy From Work Kept Texting Her Too And She Would Not Stop None Of It. I Wonder If She Liked Me Being Jealous Or Something. The Old Dude At Work Was Married With Kids And Would Text Her Stuff Like (u Looked Sexy In Your Green Shirt Last Night). I Let It Get To Me. She Said That The Reason She Done All This Is So She Feels Wanted, But I Thought I Was Doing A Good Job At That. I Guess Not. What Im Wondering Is, Is It A Good Thing Where Not Together Not Or What? I Need Some Motivation If It Seems Right To Give It Too Me. Nc Is Killing Me And I Think If We Got Back Together It Would Be Great, But Thats Just What I Think. I Need Help! Thanks!!

Thanks For The Advise. I Need It!

hey everyone im josh. i got a problem with my girl or ex girl. heres the deal. me and her have been dating for about 2 1/2 years. its not been the greatest relationship, but the good times made it worth it. the last three months we have been broke up. we still keep in touch pretty often. well about the time we broke up she informed me that she had just started writing some guy in prison that was friends with her dad when he was in the pen. she knows i dont like this considering im a cop, but anyway she told me i could read the letters at first and i being trusting said no. then i reconsidered and she told me no it was her business. anyway they have been writing alot more since then. well when i go over there we pretty much hookup without going all the way. she still tells me she loves me, but she doesnt want to be back with me right now. she still calls me and makes me think shes wants me though. but ive noticed that she really talks good about this guy and takes up for him all the time. and says hes a alpha male and all the girls in our town will want him when he gets back, and shes going to visit him at christmas and has a pic of him up in her living room. she wont even go to the bathroom when im there worried that i will try to read the letters she has put up. what the hell should i do. just tell her i ****off or what. i really love her, but damn i just wish i knew what she was thinking. is it possible that see just sees this guy has a friend or does it seem like more? im i wasting my time just waiting around on her? thanks!