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At first she wanted to spend all her time with me. I reluctantly started to do so. Things have changed and now she does not want to spend all her time with me. She did not say it exactly but her actions tell me.

I have been with gf for over a year and have lost my self esteem in the process. We have been through a lot and it has come down to almost our last thread. I have become clingy and needy and I hate myself for being that way. I feel I I have to have her around me all the time to make me feel at ease. I wasn't like this in the beginning but now things have changed. I would like to be able to stand on my own two feet again without worrying about her all the time. Things I used to do aren't not happening anymore. Can you possible give me some suggestions on getting your self esteem, individuality back? I don't want to push her away but I feel my behaviors are not making anything better b/w us. Thanks all