Ruh_Roh

Totally correct approach. Some people are more private than others, and would definitely appreciate respect for their " boundaries", then there's normal guys that would be totally intrigued with the gorgeous lady that took the trouble to write and drop off a note. He's a lucky guy, give it a whirl. I'm a guy, and guys definitely dig a girl's unequivocal attention! Good luck to you, as if you'll need it

That's a sad tale. I think you might have screwed up.

Congratulations on the advancement; some of the office babes may try to entice you! I've faced a similar situation moving from a smaller company to a much larger one in the same industry, and it always means top-shelf equipment I can't afford to buy for myself, babes I might not have met otherwise, and a bigger paycheck. You got through the grueling interview; ain't it cool to be in? Congratulations to you!

Most everyone thinks it's much easier for the female to rebound after a bad relationship, but the fatal mistake is trying to force a failed relationship back together again after said bad break-up. I've tried it. It leads to bad fun stinky sex, then back to the issues... Not a good thing, at least not for me. YMMV. Once it's over, it's eventually over. Ruh Roh

Mine would be "Good-Bye To You" by Scandal, 1982.

Please don't do it. I've read your thread and what happened with your mom, your brother, you, then your dad and your sister w/ power of attorney privelege. I tend to agree w others that you should continue to fight. Not for money, though that in itself isn't an evil thing, but it's a tool to grease the daily skids of life... what you need to take care of your dad! I'm hoping you will do the right thing, and not abandon your helpless father. I'm not even going to pretend that I understand your situation, but there are people on this site, including a n00b like me, that would be more than happy to just help you find some more clarity to your actual circumstances and situation. You don't need Agreement, Just Clarity. Please don't do what you were thinking of, there IS another way out of this. Prayers for lmtyler, straight up. You don't know us, and I don't know anyone either, but we're pullin for you bud, whether you like it or not. C'mon buddy, 100 years from now, who's gonna care? We have a VERY limited time to make our mark, so c'mon man, you know what to do.

Whether you like it or not, I'm praying for you. Please don't do it. It's OK to cry, much better to type to people that want to help than to anonymously snuff yourself. Please don't, the world would be a poorer place without you. Saying another prayer for you, whether you like it or not!

Pretty long letter, but the up-shot is yeah, the the guy is sweet on you. He might just want to nail ya. It's probably that. You aggressive and creepy? You definitely don't come accross that way. Hey, you don't work for the IRS already, do you? Probably not yet, but you might go to law school one day... then god help us all! I wouldn't worry a whit about this temporary set-back if I were you. You're going to continue to do just fine, I Tell You What. Hank Hill is rarely wrong. Hope to see you on the board! Ruh Roh

Hey bud, how much more do you need to say? You wrote a long, eloquent, and heartfelt letter to the girl, and if she couldn't be bothered to read the page, then forget her. Who cares if you're shy? That'll change when you see the next hot librarian-type lady checkin you out. There are tons of women, and if she refuses to treat you with the respect you obviously deserve, decline to accept her attempts/communications at bringing you down. Long and Short, this chick sounds toxically expendable. Best of luck to you, Ruh Roh:splat:

Well, there Must have been something that he said or did at some point for you to have reason to question his credibility. Your natural female curiosity got the best of you, you're smart, and you found out stuff he would have rather you didn't know. I don't know the particulars of the computer security arrangements between you two, but if it was something so horrible that people would remember it 100 years from now, if you want to broach the subject with him, you'll have to admit you hacked into his CPU. Huh. It seems to be a quandary. The inconsistencies with the truth are significant. Your OP doesn't state your depth of involvement w/ the guy, you know, are you on some sexin dates, or is there a future? If you're not sure, try link removed it will give you a basic overview of the person you want to trust, but just lied to you...

Well, something doesn't add up right from the start. The man claims to be busy with kids, but from what I've read of incels, they've never been able to form conventional relationships with women of the type that would make them fathers. If you're asking the question as to whether someone you've met on-line has given you pause so as to doubt them, then by all means do. You're under zero obligation to accept what you read as the absolute truth, together with the other information at your disposal. Trust your gut. Hi quietgrl from Ruh Roh, hope to see you around!

As for myself, I'm a little lonesome, not really bored, but sadly a little sexually frustrated. 1 out of 3 ain't bad! And I'm a total n00b! Howdy from Ruh_Roh!