standingpyre

Bounder, I understand you're fears. I was with somone who I had the most intense love and sex relationship. Not one before or after has compared. But they are all different and require a different attention to them. Yes, relationships and women are similar in this instance. Fear is the mindkiller, so relax, learn your new girlfriends mannerisms and eventually you will make her happy. This doesn't mean that you'll both click and multi-orgasm your way to the record books, but that can't be the only thing that matters. Otherwirse you'll both be unhappy.

About a week ago with the cousin of a friend of mine of 12 years. I keep having sec with her even though I am not particularly interested in her.

Take it slow. If you want to please her, treat her delicately at first. Kiss hr lips softly, to moisten them. Smell her hair, kiss her ears. Rub her skin lightly with your fingertips. Move about her with curiosity and find all of the things that make special. You can be playful, but not silly. Lick her inner thighs without touching her flower. Create suspense and anticipation. Allow her mind to work itself over as her body prepares for what you will do next. Take time to learn her neds and movement as well as all of the signs of approval. When she begins to breath a little heavier, you're on the right track. But don't just sit and repeat. You'll bore her. So move about her flesh kindly. If you find she likes it a little rough, start with a slight nibble on her lips and perhaps her nipples. Take your time with foreplay. If she can't wait, she'll let you know. One position to try is placing a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is raised. This places her in a position to receive you well and touch her in the right places. You can also try standard missionary or "doggy style" - another favorite of mine is placing her legs over my shoulders while I am above her. The transition from missionary to this position is farley smooth and works similarly to placing a pillow benath her hips. Last and not least, try what I believe is called the "fluttering butterfly" Its much like the last position I described, however, instead of wrapping her lega over your shoulders, you merely lift them while you penetrating her and move one leg up at a time. When one leg comes up, the other goes down. This creates a gyrating movement of her pelvis. Typically this is something she would do on her own because she knows where she wants your penis. Above all, enjoy her before you enjoy yourself.