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hello.. i posted a story about my g/f about a week days ago... okay.. since my last post.. I didn't respond to that text message. She called me the next day around noon. I didn't get her call until about 30 minutes later and then I called her back. She called me to tell me that she was having horrible cramps (time of month) and that she wanted me to come get her from school. I was too late and her best friend ended up driving her home. She went on to tell me how she wasn't feeling well and then told me that if I didn't mind she was going to stop by later tonight or tomorrow sometime. I said that was fine just to call me and let me know. She then called back about an hour later and asked if she could come over then. I said it wasn't a good time because I was doing homework and had practice in an hour. She said that's fine and that she'll probably just call me tomorrow. I went to my buddies house that night and my phone doesn't have any service. When came home and had service again I had a text message that said "I stopped by but you weren't home". I texted her back saying my bad i was playing poker. I asked her the next day if she wanted to come over still and she said sure. We hung out for a good 2 or 3 hours. Just hanging out. She laughed a lot. Nothing intimate. No kissing, no cuddling, no touching pretty much. I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie with me that night and she agreed. During that time together she said she still wanted to go to my buddies wedding as my date and she wants to go shopping for a dress that matches my shirt tomorrow. Is this progress or anything? I also sent her a text message telling her good luck on her test today and then she called me after to tell me how it went and everything. She didn't call me again that night. I sent her a text message this morning telling her our friends weren't coming up to visit anymore. She said she heard that too and then called me and asked me if i wanted her friends ticket to the football game this saturday. She said that it was right next to her seat so we could sit together. I told her that I think I have work but i'm not sure yet. She then asked if i still wanted to go shopping tonight with her. I said sure so we have plans tonight to go shopping. Is she just trying to be my friend? What is going on?

okay.. since my last post.. I didn't respond to that text message. She called me the next day around noon. I didn't get her call until about 30 minutes later and then I called her back. She called me to tell me that she was having horrible cramps (time of month) and that she wanted me to come get her from school. I was too late and her best friend ended up driving her home. She went on to tell me how she wasn't feeling well and then told me that if I didn't mind she was going to stop by later tonight or tomorrow sometime. I said that was fine just to call me and let me know. She then called back about an hour later and asked if she could come over then. I said it wasn't a good time because I was doing homework and had practice in an hour. She said that's fine and that she'll probably just call me tomorrow. I went to my buddies house that night and my phone doesn't have any service. When came home and had service again I had a text message that said "I stopped by but you weren't home". I texted her back saying my bad i was playing poker. I asked her the next day if she wanted to come over still and she said sure. We hung out for a good 2 or 3 hours. Just hanging out. She laughed a lot. Nothing intimate. No kissing, no cuddling, no touching pretty much. I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie with me that night and she agreed. During that time together she said she still wanted to go to my buddies wedding as my date and she wants to go shopping for a dress that matches my shirt tomorrow. Is this progress or anything? I also sent her a text message telling her good luck on her test today and then she called me after to tell me how it went and everything.

ok.. well she called me back on Friday morning as well but i was playing golf so i didn't answer. I ended up calling her back Saturday afternoon. We talked for a little bit. Very casual. Talked about the weekend and everything. She had to go to work so I didn't talk to her the rest of the day saturday and then all day sunday. She just text messaged me and said. "I don't want you to think that I don't love you because I do. This is just something i'm doing for myself. I wanted to make sure you know that. Hope you had a good day" ... Does that mean anything? What should i do?

hello.. i posted a story about my g/f a couple days ago... I'm not sure what the goal to approach here is. She broke up with me and then still called/txted me. Not really talking about anything just kinda keeping in touch. We hung out this past week and it was her doing. She invited me up to come grocery shopping with her and then out to dinner. The bad part was that she just hugged me afterwards and that was it. The next day(it had been a week since we broke up) I called her becaue i told her i wanted to let some things off my chest and let her know how i felt. She said "drew, you would think after i took you back for something so bad that you would change" (meaning the smoking, and romance, and short temper sometimes) I wasn't that bad to her. I treated her well most of the time, with respect. I know she is VERY fond of me and i care so much about her. That's why this is so hard because i didn't see it coming. I asked her if she ever see's us getting back together and she said not really. Do girls just say this? Anyway. After that conversation she said she had to go and she would call me tomorrow. She waited until about 10 oclock last night to call and I didn't answer. I didn't call her back. I think i'm going to call her back around 3 today and just play it real cool. I don't know what my stratedgy should be? No contact?

Can someone tell me a story about them where them and their g/f broke up. Took sometime away from eachother and then it ended up working out? I would really love to hear something like that. I guess you won't find that on here because everyone that is on here has probably recently been broken up with.

why would i want to be with her if she doesn't want to be with me? Because she is right. She was dating someone who was always high, short fused, and sometimes blew things out of proportion. Granite it wasn't that bad. I also lacked the little things just to show her I was caring. The romantic things. I love her so much. All i want is a second chance. I moved up her because of her and now I have no friends up here and no one to really hang out with. She left me hanging. I want her back so bad though. I'm debating moving home. I don't think i'm going to because it won't really make anything better and that would probably end all chances of us getting back together. It's dumb to have hope because she pretty much told me strait up yesterday that she doesn't see us getting back together. As of today it has been a week and one day. I broke down hard core yesterday. And I am having a rather tough morning. I am weak.

My g/f just broke up with me a week ago. My problem isn't alcohol. It is marijuana. We've dated for about a year and a half. I cheated on her. We broke up for about 4 months and luckily we got back together. I got comfortable again in the relationship and started to smoke a little more often. I ended up moving up to where she goes to school so i could go to school her as well. It wasn't even 2 weeks into the school year and she left me stranded in a new town. I wouldn't think she would do something like this. She always acted like she loved me so much. And when i talk to her she says I will never change and that's just who I am. I know that's not who I am and I really want to quit smoking weed and cigarettes. I feel that is the source of all my problems. I have smoked since we have started dating. She hasn't really mentioned smoking being a part of the problem that much but I know it is! She says it's because she's young and wants to be single and do her own thing. But I know she hated the smoking! I'm such an idiot and I take everything for grantite. This girl has everything going for her and It hurts soo bad inside to know i might have messed everything up. If i can quit smoking cigarttes and weed, I know it's a great change no matter what but do you think it would bring her back to my arms. I just wish there was a guide i could follow to get her back. Certain steps i could take to win her heart back over. She used to be SO into me! Way more than I was into her and that all changed about a year ago. Someone talk to me please. Thanks. I love this girl so much and I know she can't just fall out of love with me like that. I sometimes think she might be dating someone else but when I ask her she says no. We have been broken up for about a week but she has still texted/called pretty much everday. I called her today to tell her I wanted to tell her how I felt and she didn't really want to listen that much. I just told her I loved her and missed her and asked her if she ever sees us getting back together and she said no not really. She likes the way things are right now. Why doesn't she love me anymore. I will quit smoking everything. : (