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Thank you. And good luck with everything as well.
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problems with trust
deadflagblues replied to markfromark's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I have a huge problem also with the whole trust issue thing. From when I was 8 years old I haven't really been able to trust anyone. Recently it's been getting a little bit better. It helps to think of a possible reason why you can't trust someone. Is it because you don't want to or is because they are giving you a reason not to trust them. You just need to tell yourself over and over again it's okay to trust people not everyone is going to hurt you. -
Yeah, if I am already attached and am trying to break this attachment sex should be def. out of the picture.
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Yeah, the more that I think about it is. Why would I want to be with someone that doesn't trust me enough, or would hurt me enough to sleep with other people also.
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To me either.
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I dated a sophomore when I was a senior, a lot of my friends gave me a lot of huff over it. I just sucked it up and went with it. The relationship went well, until I got old with it. High school is a hard time in our lives and people have a lot of say in our judgement, do what makes you happy. Other people have nothing to do with your happiness in the end.
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After thinking about that it really does connect in the back of mind, why let him keep me from moving on with my life.
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Yeah, I know. But, the thing that gets me is we talk about getting back together after I finish school. It just doesn't seem fair that he's agreeing to that and I feel like it's just some excuse to lead me on.
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My ex and I were together for almost three years before we broke up. The break up was pretty mutual, and happened not long ago. The reason why we broke up was because I am transferred colleges. I visited him last weekend and we ended up having sexual relations, I did it mostly because I feel strong emotions for him and hoped that we'd get back together because of it. Later, when I got home I confessed how I couldn't be without him and I needed him in my life. We turned me down because he didn't want a long distance relationship. (we went through that already) My heart is broken. I don't know what to do, should I still try to get back with him or just respect his feelings?