I have been married for over 20 years to someone of the rebound from a relationship in my senior year in high school. Took 2.5 years to get over her. Then I met my wife and decide to get married. We have had a tumultuous marriage off and on, but I have stuck it out for the kids. She is a good person, but I really am not in love with her anymore, but she does not know that. Really fell out 6-7 years ago. I have talked to her many times, but sccumb to the tears.
Well a few months ago my ex girlfriend contacted me and we talked and we both regret splitting up. We each never really forgot each other. We still Love each other deeply. We have not seen each other. I can't do that cuz I am married. She won't do it either cuz she has good values too. I have been soooo love sick for her since. We stopped talking because it was just too hard on each of us. We both want so bad to be together again.
I have talked to therapists and it just doesn't get any better.
How bad is divorce anyway? Will it screw up my finances? How much would it all cost? The kids ar older and it wouldn't affect them as bad as if they wer younger.
I can't stop thinking about her...It's making me sick. I have lost almost 30 lbs. What to do? I am done with therapy sessions.
