totally depressed n confus

he totally used 2 b attracted to me. but then i lost weight n now he likes me with my clothes on it seems. his friends all tell him and me that im too hot for him sooo.....its not making any sense to me!!! i mean im not perfect but noone is. i just feel as tho its me not him. he just wont leave alone now that were broken up n i know i shouldnt b with him again but i feel like i should work out n have the best body n let him b mad. cuz hes extremely over weight n im 5'5'' 140pounds! im scared now to enjoy sex n cant feel sexy anymore

My boyfriend...well now ex(wants to work it out).....would NEVER b romantic. Not even tell me happy anniversary!!! nothing! plus i could wear lingerie in front of him n he couldnt even get an erection! I mean I do ALL the work sexually.........ALL the work. He doesnt touch me much or mak me feel sexy. I take my own clothes off or not at all. When im naked i dont find him paying much attention to me at all. So i feel embarrassed to take my clothes off in front of him n were together for 3 years! I mean, i have to give him oral to make him hard most of the time and hes always watching porn or some disgusting videos with chicks in thongs. It's like, I must not be attractive to him right? I dont understand. He never compliments me unless were far apart...in dif states. Then he tell me he thinks im beautiful and sexy but he still never buys me lingerie or even gets excited if i try to put it on. It has my self esteem very low. but other men find me very attractive. I dont get it ???? Does all this mean he isnt sexually attracted to me??? cuz he said it doesnt!

I was in a relationship something like this for over 2 years and moved to Florida THREE times for the jerk and he NEVER changed. I hate to say it but it seems once a guy gets away with something he feels he can keep doing it. I don't think he has enough respect for u or ur feelings or even ur relationship. I should do urself a favor n leave him. I KNOW its hard and that u love him but u deserve someone with all the same qualities u bring to a relationship. And if he hasnt changed by now, he probably never will!!! If u had a friend who was going through this situation or a sister I KNOW u would tell her the same thing. U definitely deserve better and someone who u can trust. A relationship with no trust is no relationship at all. I promise u that it will always b in the back of ur mind n if u catch him in a few lies.........think about everything he lied about u didnt catch him in. I wouldnt believe him for a second and especially about not hookig up with girls. After we broke up u should hear the things my ex said to me. I found out he cheated on me with over THREE girls n i had no idea. I was in the almost exact situation and I know how u feel. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take my advice and leave him!!! As soon as possible. Its hard at first but time will make it better and u will feel and do a lot better n b happier. Trust me..........its been only 2 months and I can see a big difference in myself already. U will too.

So my ex-boyfriend was pretty to me for over two years. I moved to Fl twice for him. He put a page on myspace about me telling lies like I cheated on him n was a and a stripper and stuff! So he treated me like you wouldnt believe with this girl he liked for over 3 years and after all he put me through i said i could onyl take him back if they werent friends. He says I am being immature but I dont think so because he used to even stay the nightwith her and lie bout it when i asked him not to. He wont leave me alone and I dont know what to do! I think it would b a big mistake to be with him. Im trying to work out so I look good when he comes to visit his family and stuff cuz he said he wants to see me. Should I leave him alone? I get sick of him telling me he still loves me after everything has done

Here goes a long story. i met my bf when i was in hs n from the beginning he had a promiscuous "friend" whom he stayed the night with VERY VERY frequently. He also would let me drive 30 minutes to his house, knowing I was comnig, and be gone for the night with her and no phone calls. She would call late at night and even on her birthday one night came was gone from 7pm til 930pm the next day and her phone was off the hook. He admitted to liking her in the past and even while we were together, getting jealous of her sleeping with his friend! I even agreed to moce to FL w him and two days before we left caught him over there with her at 330am. She tried to fight me so I left and he gave her my cell number so she could call and say mean stuff to me and stayed there for another hour after this. He has lied to me many times about being with her ad about other females calling him and hanging with him. I found out he cheated with one girl and I moved back from Fl. I have recently after so much STILL continued stress from this one particular female, told him I cant handle his friendship with her and it was either me or her. I ended up mving back to FL for him two times based on the promise he would not lie or talk to her anymore and both times he has failed me. He never compliments me or takes me out much. I dislike going anywhere with him anyway because he is constantly checking out other females....which has been a problem since the beginning and I have told him many times but he still does it. I am only 20 years old and have lost 94 pounds because of him and after dropping 50 pounds he told me he didnt even notice. He didnt even tell me happy anniversary....ever. A few good things have been out of this but I am currently trying to break it off with him. He calls everyday and begs me to be with him but he is also still friends with this girl. But I have caught him takling to phone sex lines and other women from online with the same area code. I know I sound ridiculous but he HAD to have been cheating with multiple women right? He said he cheated once and that he only wants me. This does not even begin the story of what he has put me through but I want to believe him so badly. Please let me know if my jealousy is justified or if it's possible he isn't lying??

im not sure if i posted this in the right spot but here goes a long story. i met my bf when i was in hs n from the beginning he had a promiscuous "friend" whom he stayed the night with VERY VERY frequently. He also would let me drive 30 minutes to his house, knowing I was comnig, and be gone for the night with her and no phone calls. She would call late at night and even on her birthday one night came was gone from 7pm til 930pm the next day and her phone was off the hook. I even agreed to moce to FL w him and two days before we left caught him over there with her at 330am. She tried to fight me so I left and he gave her my cell number so she could call and say mean stuff to me and stayed there for another hour after this. He has lied to me many times about being with her ad about other females calling him and hanging with him. I found out he cheated with one girl and I moved back from Fl. I have recently after so much STILL continued stress from this one particular female, told him I cant handle his friendship with her and it was either me or her. I ended up mving back to FL for him two times based on the promise he would not lie or talk to her anymore and both times he has failed me. He never compliments me or takes me out much. I dislike going anywhere with him anyway because he is constantly checking out other females....which has been a problem since the beginning and I have told him many times but he still does it. I am only 20 years old and have lost 94 pounds because of him and after dropping 50 pounds he told me he didnt even notice. He didnt even tell me happy anniversary....ever. A few good things have been out of this but I am currently trying to break it off with him. He calls everyday and begs me to be with him but he is also still friends with this girl. But I have caught him takling to phone sex lines and other women from online with the same area code. I know I sound ridiculous but he HAD to have been cheating with multiple women right? He said he cheated once and that he only wants me. This does not even begin the story of what he has put me through but I want to believe him so badly. Please let me know if my jealousy is justified or if it's possible he isn't lying??