sillyladyx3

hi [: if u think u guys coudl go back to what u had or better then fight for him don't let this younger woman have him. Make him want you back . don't file for a divorce yet nto till ur sure u both want it. I might not be much of help for you but i'm only 16 and i hvn't gotten married yet but i hv been in love and i know what its like well i know what its liek for me and i hope i've helped at least a little [: -all my love -

well i've been dating this guy on and off and like i really thought he was th eone like i hionestly didn't think we would break up. But i was wrong we've broken up 3 times and on the 17th it will be one month of both of use being single .Like we still hang out and stuff but like we can't hang out witout hooking up and doing other stuff, like we can't and like he tells me everytime that happens that he hates me b/c he is falling for me again, & again & agian. For awhile i just ignored him b/c thats all i could think of to do b/c i don't want to be friends its to hard for me, but i guess he doesn't understand that. I hate not being with him. Like everytime i hv ignored him he tells me when we start talking again that he hated that like it made him miserab;e and when he says that i actually thinks wow he cares but then how like idk i feel like he doesn't care at all. I just really want to be wiht him again. I have gone threw alot in my life from my dad dying from my mom going to jail blah blah blah well thats a whole diffeent story but he made me feel safe and he made mefeel like i was worth something and i don't want to lose that, but i know there isn't a chance for us to get back together and that really upsets me it really does it gets me so down, i use to be able to hide it but since last week i couldn't hide it anymore i noticed one day that i coudln't even smile and if i did it hurt. and i told him about that and he got mad at me and like my friend said he got mad at me b/c i made him feel bad..but idk. I just feel so down & idk what to do. I don't really hv anyone to tlak to now b/c all my friends are tired of hearing about him and i can't talk to him b/c he works so much now and the only times i tlk to him is at school . I know i'm not happybut the thing that makes me happy is him, i've tried for so long to find other things but i can't i'm still trying b/c i kno theres probally not a chance for me and him anymore, but i'm scared to be happy i'm really scared to be. can someone please tell me what to do b/c idk how much more of this i can take.

if he contacts u again maybe its best not to respond don't text him anymore let him text you but if u feel u shoudl respond then do so but don't nag him bout things just see wat he wants and just try to be friendly like don't get in it with him he isn't worth it i know you love him but sometimes its best we move on.

so i've dated this guy for 2months 2 weeks & 1 day i know it doesn't seem that long but i really fell in love with him he was ALWAYS there for me and we maybe got into 4 to 5 fights the most i really could see myself with him for the rest of my life but one day he said its different now & he doewsn't feel the same anymore but then like the day we broke up he called me like 2hrs later and then we talked that night for maybe an hour and like i didn't think the reason he told me he broke up wiht me was true but then i find out he broke up with me is b/c he loves me & he thinks i deserv better then like we still tlked on the phone at night for bout 1 to 2 hours then like 3 days later he asks someone else out it really broke my heart when that happened but he still tlked to me on the phone at nights 4 bout 1 to 2 hours still and he would ask me questions like do u think will get back together? then like me and him go to a movie together and he kisses me so he cheats on her then he cheats on her again wiht me maybe 4 days later then 2 days after that he breaks up wit her b/c he thinks she is ugly he doesn'y like her and he misses me. We still tlk every night and he always brings up us & like we play truth or dare & he will ask me wat do i feel for him & i'll tell him then i ask him and he says everything then today like idk i just feels l he doesn't care anymore.. its hard to write all ur emotions so u guys probally don't think its that bad but like its just so complicated please help i just don't kno wat to do anymorie its just me and him both hv depression(lets keep it at that) like i've never truly been happy b4 till i found him i miss him so freaking much

i know exaclty how you feel but the saying is right everything happens for a reason we just have to leanr that its not easy but it helps relationships fail to make us stronger