DannyEss

right well i went out for a meal tonight with my gf of 1 year for her 18th birthday (her birthday was wednesday). we had a great time andi wanted to tell her i loved her but i couldnt find the right time or right way to say it without sounding weird. So i didnt tell her. When i dropped her off at home i was going to tell her then but it didnt feel right just saying it. I really love her and it seems silly that its took this long to say it. How do i tell her i love her?

ok well im sort of backwith the ex now. had a chat about it and ive just said i dont want it going to fast as i have to make itup to her and get it back to being great. her birthday in 2 weeks so have to take her out somewhere aswel.

slow dancing isnt that hard. you just put your hands round her waist and rock from side to side (old school disco trick im rubbish at dancing (not confident enough) so good luck when the tempo gets alittle faster

Ok well from my last thread ( ) something has happened. As you can see i went out tonight with my ex just as mates (yeah, thats right). WE went to the cinema. Film was good and we just went to watch it. Well halfway through she starts flirting with me. well i call it flirting she was 'wetting' me with the condensation of the drink. First she just put it on my arm and it scared me as i wasnt expecting it as i was watching the film. I then did it back as a playful gesture. Started messing around with it putting it on my face. When it stopped i was just thinking about the good times we had and stuff and i wanted to lean over and give her a kiss but i didnt. It then made me confused. On one hand i want to get back with her cause we had some great times but then on the other i dont want to because id like to try and get to know that other girl. Not being big headed but i know if i asked her out (my ex) she would say yes. torn at what to do. if she mentions it i think il just say i wanna play it cool for abit and not jump in so fast this time, or should i just jump in and try and get her back? It didnt help much either cause she looked great

right well something is happening. (not with this girl). I broke up with my gf about a month ago. We've talked about why we finished and we're still mates and we're meant to be going to the cinema tomorrow night. Now i think she might think something will happen (ie get back together) but i dont know if i want it. Id rather try and see what happens with the other girl first (might sound nasty as its like im playing them or whatever) before thinking of anything happening between us. anyway im thinking of booking my haircut next week so il have to put all this info into practice and see what happens il probably end up cracking and not doing it but il have a go. main thing is seeing if she has a bf first and im hoping she hasnt any more advice?

girls who dont keep their privates tidy and trimmed (back and front) playboy stuff, you're not 12 years old now!

ok but does that not seem abit forward? or say if she doesnt and i leave after having my haircut, my hairdresser would probably tell her wouldnt she that ive been asking about her? Just wondering if theres a subtle way to ask thats all.

well im not that brave, if i saw her cutting other peoples hair then maybe i would. Theres not really any chance to talk to her though. Firstly how can i ask the girl who cuts my hair to let slip if she has a bf or not? as if i know she doesnt have one then it makes it easier, doesnt it?

yeah but i don really get a chance to talk to her. probably about 10 seconds when she puts the gown on me and my hairdressers comes to me. I guess its just not going to happen? I could be brave and let her have a practice on my hair

well i like the hairdressers and i jsut dont want to feel awkward if it all goes belly up thats all.

i said she isnt my hairdresser. she just tidies up and answers the phone etc.

Right theres this girl in my hairdressers who i have kinda been drawn to. Only problem is i dont know how to go about asking her out or something. She isnt a hairdresser yet as i think shes training. Shes 17-18 and im 19. Now im a tad shy in that i cant just go up to someone and start chatting to them as most of the time i just forget about anything to say which is a tad awkward. I need my haircutting soon so its my only chance to get to try my luck so tospeak, as i wont be getting my hair cut for 1-2 monts afterwards. Also how can i find out if she already has a bf as its a bit pointless going after her if she has one. Its also abit intimidating just going chatting with her as its a small salon which is mostly women working there. So is there anyway i can get to know her? talk to the girl who does my hair about her and ask her stuff? how can i find out if she has a bf or not by asking my hairdresser? Any help welcome cheers ps. im only shy one the first encounter as i just get stuck for what to say as that post makes me sound like i cant talk to anyone.