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JoeWho

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  1. I think that typically it is the person who does the breaking up that is responsible for initiating a reconciliation.
  2. This is exactly why it is almost never a good idea to send your ex a letter. Because once you send it, you start thinking about what their response will be and then the whole "well what did they mean by that" thoughts consume you. Maybe the best thing for you to do now is send him another email saying something like, "it was nice to hear from you, I hope you are doing well but I dont think I am ready to be friends with you yet" Obviously you should word it a little differently but that should be your point. Talking on the phone as friends and small talk which is probably what will happen, will hurt.
  3. Probably, oh well it was fun and probably made some people smile.
  4. Everytime you get knocked down and then get back up again you are that much stronger. Hang in there you'll make it through this
  5. Great, just tell me where I need to sign. lol
  6. Only if I can answer I dont know where do you think this relationship is going.
  7. As long as you dont ask me "Do I look fat in this" lol
  8. I could not agree more with this post. It truly is an amazing feeling once you let go of that relationship.
  9. I dont think I would ever say that to a girl, many girls would be offended. My ex and many other girls I know would say things like "So you are saying I look fat with what I have on?" in a kidding but serious way. Know what I mean guys?
  10. Guilt is a heavy burden to carry my friend. I say you come clean and whatever happens at least all the cards are on the table. She will probably sense something is wrong and ask you "whats wrong" and if you lie and she finds out, you can bet on the relationship being over. It's a tough decision but the right thing to do is tell her the truth, she deserves to know all the information as the two of you make a decision on your future. The truth hurts, but lies hurt 100x more. Trust me on this one.
  11. To which she replies: "So you are saying I look fat with what I have on?" and now you are in a world of crap
  12. Every guy eventually "learns" how to answer this set up...I mean question.
  13. True, but people read between the lines and off the record conversations happen all the time in the business world.
  14. I think that every woman should know that for every guy, that number is far too high assign a value to. lol
  15. My ex used to tell me: "I dont want to have to tell you to do things or say things , I just want you to know what to do and say" To which I would reply: " Well maybe you should find a mind reader and be with them then" I guess that explains why we broke up. She obviously took my advice and found herself a mind reader. LOL
  16. Still you never want to burn bridges even if you know you will never go back there. Just think of how you would like to be treated if you had someone working for you who was going to resign. Then do that.
  17. I too would suggest the two week notice. It is the right thing to do especially if you are close to the people you work with. Hopefully they will see that your new job is a great opportunity for you and will wish you the best. Just be honest and be thankful for the opportunity that they gave you. Oh by the way congratulations on your new job!
  18. Good point, I guess if I were a woman I might feel a little differently. Its pretty sad that the double standard still exists today. I always got asked first though, I never have had to ask so I guess thats why I just dont think it is that big a deal. Of course that was 10 years ago when I was 18 and I'm just back on the strange dating thing recently so maybe things are a little different now. I think I'll take all the ladies advice on this and just never ask out of fear of getting that look that you all do so well. LOL
  19. You completely ignored the fact that attraction is defined differently by each person.
  20. I agree with you. It should not matter to the relationship, but I dont understand how people dont let curiosity get the best of them. I have been asked before and I never got offended.
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