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  1. JoeWho
    I think I love you lol
  2. JoeWho
    Oh no the dreaded question lol
  3. JoeWho
    Well good luck healing if you are a Yankees fan, you are going to need it. They may have more championships than the Red Sox but ask yourself who won in 2004 and when was the last time the Yankees won?
  4. JoeWho
    I think that you should be officially together before you attempt to do this in public around people that you know. If a girl that I was just dating tried to kiss me in public around a bunch of my friends or worse coworkers, I would feel like she was trying to claim her territory. If it were her friends or coworkers I wouldnt care so much. Just a little too much too soon.
  5. JoeWho
    Yeah each relationship is unique, you cant punish one person for someone else's mistakes.
  6. JoeWho
    Dont worry about it. Who cares what he thinks now anyways? Just move one with your life and dont contact him ever. You'll be just fine without him.
  7. JoeWho
    I can see how you could be a little worried about this, but like other posters have stated if he has proven himself to be trustworthy then you should have nothing to worry about. Have some fun that weekend, do stuff with your friends and tell him to have a great time and you'll see him when he gets back. He will really be happy with you if you are cool with it.
  8. JoeWho
    Its hard to tell from just reading your post but maybe you do have it really good and have just always been with women who are very needy and you current girlfriend is just the opposite. Do you feel that she loves you? If so then I think you got it made. Plus you have a sailboat, so your life sounds great!!!
  9. JoeWho
    You are healing but healing is a slow process so be patient. Spend some time figuring out who you are and what you want out of life before venturing into another relationship. I think you have the right attitude and you are doing a great job healing so far.
  10. JoeWho
    Yeah how can you expect to heal rooting for the Jets? lol
  11. JoeWho
    I think there is a difference between a nice guy and a good guy. I am by no means a nice guy as I wont let someone walk over me even a bit and I'll freely admit that I can be a jerk sometimes and have a bit of a swagger, but I do consider myself a good guy. Good guys are strong, honest, loyal, caring and treat women with respect but at the same time are not afraid to put their foot down when being taken advantage of. Nice guys have some of the same qualities as good guys but give the impression of being weak and shy and girls clearly take advantage of them.
  12. JoeWho
    Yeah thats the way it is with healing from a break up. I have found that every once in a while for no apparent reason I have a little bit of a set back such as you described. Then once I get over the setback in a few days or however long it takes, I find that I am really feeling great. It is really like two or three steps forward and then one step back. The good news is that as time goes by the setbacks are less and less severe and shorter in duration while the days when you feel like a million bucks become the norm. It is a slow transition though so have some patience. Congratulations you are definitely healing!!!
  13. JoeWho
    Hang in there buddy, I've been in the same position as you with someone I was with for ten years. Yes it is devastating at first, but it will get better once a little time passes. Six months later I feel great most of the time and I am happy that I had to go through that. It makes you a much more caring and thoughtful person when you are crushed like that. You'll make it through this mess just fine, and you'll come out of it a much better person.
  14. JoeWho
    Exactly what oatmeal said. Don't think about it, just let it happen. If you start thinking about it too much you will get yourself all worked up and nervous and then things wont exactly work as they are supposed to. Turn your brain off then relax and enjoy the experience.
  15. JoeWho
    I am happy to hear that you have found such a love. I have been there before and it's pretty amazing, your post brought back some great memories.
  16. JoeWho
    Cut your losses. If she cheated on you then she obviously doesn't care about you the way you care about her. And what is this crap about her needing time to decide what she wants to do? Do yourself a favor and make the decision for her. Sure it will hurt for a little while but you will be far better off without her and that much closer to a girl who deserves to be with you.
  17. JoeWho
    Sounds like he is testing the water to me. Maybe he just wants to know that he still holds some control over your emotions. Could be a lot of things. If I were you, I would just come right out and ask him why he is contacting you.
  18. JoeWho
    Good for you. It is nice when you do finally start to feel better after a relationship ends. It is completely normal to be afraid to let go. Its pretty scary to give up something that was once so important to you. You will let go at your own pace a little bit at a time. When my ex broke up with me a little over six months ago I felt the same way you do. Hoping that she would come back before it was "too late", now I just don't even think about it and if she were to come crawling back I am afraid that I would have to show her that same door that was slammed in my face six months ago. Point being with some time you will feel indifference torwards you ex and what scares you now will be nothing but an afterthought in a few months.
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  20. JoeWho
    The best thing for you to do is just move on with your life. Maybe with some time he will want you back and maybe he wont, but either way the best thing for you to do is to move on with your life. Look forward not back.
  21. JoeWho
    I honestly can't say that I have one. I just like them all so much.
  22. JoeWho
    Dont worry about those things, and if by some strange twist of fate you did throw up, dont you think you will look back at that in a few years and laugh your butt off?
  23. JoeWho
    They sure are!!!!
  24. JoeWho
    I agree if I never had to work and could get 8 hours of sleep a night, then 3 times a day would be great!!!
  25. JoeWho
    Usually people get nervous about things because we make things out to be way bigger and more important than they actually are. If you put things in perspective then you wont be as nervous. Whats the absolute worst thing that could happen when you ask her? She may say no. Oh well, then you go and find another cute girl and ask her out. Good luck , I hope things go your way!
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