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IrishGal26

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  1. a relationship is an investment and hard work and i guess you have to work together at it .. if it is worth it .. if you feel it is worth it well then you have to do everything to keep it alive... its only when you feel tired of trying ... maybe its time to think again.. there are alot of bad partners out there and it is hard to find someone who you can share things with .. so i suppose when you do you have to work through the rough and the smooth of it all .... maybe we are all reading into things too much ..
  2. thank you , that is a good response , you are right, everyone is different and it depends what you want from your partner, i guess you have to make the decision for yourself... but I do like getting advice as to what other people think... I am going to buy that book this weekend thanks
  3. glad to hear you are happy and enjoying your relationship .... isn't love great ha ha! what I mean the " bad things" is I mean I am always looking at what can go wrong, I always see the worst in things... we have our fights which i really don't like but dosen't everyone .... he is my best friend .. he knows everything about me ... i think i get scared when someone is so close i just try and push it all away .. if you understand what i mean ? i am so glad i joined this site ... its great talking to people like you and getting advice ... so are you really happy with your new guy ?
  4. for your advice . i know i might come accross like that , but honestly , i dont find it easy to say " love" and loving someone but I do love him and am not just saying that because u have pointed it out . And like you , my life would be completley different without him in it. He is my back bone. I am just not a very postive person I guess. I am learning that about myself . I care and love him alot and do see him as the Father of my children someday ( which is something i thought i would never want in life due to some circumstances ), but I am just always lately wondering are we meant for each other and I dont know why . I think it is becaues we are building a house and it is such a huge thing and I am afraid if things go wrong what would happen ... he is probably the best man I'll ever met . ..
  5. ive had one previous relationship were he wasn't very good to me and the other well we just didn't get on really , so i suppose i have to relise when u have a good thing maybe be contented with it and stop looking for all the bad things in it -?! how does that sound ha !
  6. i am so indecisive its not funny - he knows what i am like and still stands by me - he knows how hot and cold i go and still stays with me , he is no angel at all but a good boyfriend - i suppose we have to appreciate the good things we have and not be so negative maybe
  7. good advice, we just have to take what we have now.... there are some horrible men out there... i guess i should count myself lucky ... just to be contented is the main thing I suppose really ... its just hard to know .. i dont know how i am going to turn into a person who can make a decision or ever be happy
  8. i know what you mean Tried Patience . I know what I am like too though, i was wonder about EVERYTHING in my life and can NEVER make a decision .. I am hopeless ! ha ha - i really am ... he is a great person, we enjoy each others company and he is really good to me ...i actually think my life would be worse without him in it - like completley bad - maybe i just take him for granted too much
  9. Hello, Some say you just know but do you really know. I have been in a relatioship for two years now . We have our ups and downs , sometimes more down than ups but we love the same things and I do like being around him. We are building a house soon and I just wonder how do you know if this is what is meant to be ? Sometime i feel like I would like to be single then other times I like being in a relationship. Why can't I just be happy with him all of the time ? He does love me but sometimes I think to myself maybe he is not the "one". Other time I look at him and think defintley, hes great , I would like to build my life with him . I think I put too much pressure on myself and think about things too much but I just wondered what your opinons are on this and hope Im not alone ....
  10. Hi guys, I can only orgasm through Oral sex ??! why is this ? are many girls like this ? I am comfortable with my partner and enjoy sex with him but cannot seem to orgasm , only through oral sex ?!!
  11. hey thanks for that I'll take that advice - maybe everyone does do it - i just didn't relise !!
  12. thanks for the advice, yes i dont mind the whole celebrity thing, thats not so bad, but he has mentioned people i know and says he dosen't mean to just these people pop into his head and he dosen't mean it .. i am just paranoid everywhere we go that he is looking and sleezing after other women, he probably isn't, but i am very conscious of that now ..he has told me over and over not to worry that he isn't lusting after women but i kind of dont believe him - thats my own fault though i suppose .
  13. thanks, i wouldn't have thought every guy did it- if he really loves his girlfriend i would have thought I was enough- as he tells me he fancies me so much - ! i guess maybe ignorance is bliss!
  14. yeh thanks I know - i should try - i just get so paranoid sometimes
  15. thanks for the advice, its not the fantasy I mind - its the fact that there is always a 3rd of 4rth person ! and i think its all the time - what you think ?
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