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I just want to know how you get over this god awful feeling I am having which I feel is compounded by the fact that I will be away from my son for a year. Maybe I should seek attention from someone else like she has decided to do? Although I think its way too soon, I think it's the easier way to forget.

It's come full circle. My wife told me 2 days ago that when I return from Iraq that I could move into her new house and we could work on "us". For the sake of argument and to continue to be able to see my son before I leave, I decided not to tell her that I would not want to do that. Funny thing, she cried as she asked me for money for gas and food yesterday, and she also went to a prty last night. I visited her unnanounced today and saw her in front of her sisters house with some guy. We never sat outside and talked during our 2 years of marriage, and she never went to any parties. Someone please help and tell me how to deal with this. I see a counselor weekly now but its not seeming to help. I feel bad when I am with the kids, and I can't my wife in her face anymore because I get so angry. My marriage is obviously through. What else can I do to get rid of this enormously draining feeling that I have.

Hello to all, I found the site after searching the net. I believe there is a lot of advice here but I need some specific help with my situation. I am a SOldier of 14years and will have been married for 2 years in November. First and only Marriage. I have a two year old son, who I have already spent away for a year overseas. My wife has recently left me saying we should be friends and took my son as well. I am having serious trouble getting past the anger, both for her and myself. I am worried about my health and the possibility for me to be a good father to my son in the future. I will be going back overseas very soon, and I need to know how to get myself mentally prepared for what I need to do, meanwhile salvaging my relationship with my wife even if its only to be there for my son later on.