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Well, to clear the air here, my point is that For the 2 years I've been with him, I never received any presents, anything from him, I wouldn't comment on that here if I knew it wasnt his fault or something. He is downright cheap, when we go out, I pay for stuff, he pretends he doesnt see the check coming, even leaves the area when it's time to pay, what do you call that?

uum, to batya especially, i am not asking thaat he suports me all the way, taking care of me, buying me things, I specifically pointed out that we were engaged to be married, I work, I have a very good job, actually i make more than him. I'm sure everyone goes through financial stress sometimes when they cannot seem to make ends meet, I just figure in times like that, you should have a partner that can at least offer to pay an electric bill or something. Jeez, this guy has never bought me anything, not for christmas, birthday, valentine's day, ntohing. I mean seriously, would you stay with a man who has never given u anything, and you've constantly given to him, with love, with your heart becuz you love this guy. It is a pain for me especially when he comes oveer and he makes sure he eats, drinks, sleeps, is on my internet 24/7, cuz he cannot afford to get his own, all of that.

well thanks for all that great advice, I didnt expect to receive all that feedback so soon honestly. I am goin to try talkin to him about it, I guess I have not really sat and talked to him about it so he probably is not even aware that it is a problem. I still say that U don't need to ask a man for money for him to offer you somehting. I mean, we're together, we're intimate. He knows I have bills to pay, things to do, I am trying to go to school at the same time, you mean I have to sit and tell him I need this and that for him to offer? Guys are supposed to take care of their women. I hope I don't sound greedy, trust me I am so not fussy about things, it's just that when u're broke, and u realise that your being broke is maybe becuz u give away too much and u get nothing back, then thats when these thoughts cross my head. I really hope I can find the right words to tell him about this. thanks again everybody!

well, i think i can relate a little to what u're saying, women just have these instincts that most times turn out to be right. I mean why is she calling him at 3 inthe morning,I wuld be mad too if it were me. Women have to understnad what ex means, it means u're not together anymore, yes yall can be friends, but u ahve to respect the other person's relationhip, at least know what time to call him, not 3 in the morning!

1. He makes me laugh when i'm sad 2. he loves me as I am, always says I'm pretty even though I think I'm not. 3. He devotes as much time as he can to me. 4. He gives the best sex ever. 5. I can say with confidence that he loves me, no matter what. 6. He is always the first to apologize whether he thinks he's right or wrong.

hi, I have been engaged to this guy for about a year now. He is the sweetest fiance a woman can ask for, in every thing except his pocket. he is so stingy with me, I find that there is something wrong going on here, I mean, if you have to consider the amount of money I've spent on this guy, especially when he was unemployed, I helped him with his bills, things he had to do etc. He was so grateful to me because if it weren't for me, he probably would have gotten evicted. I'm not saying that I did things to expect anything back from him but for goodness sake, the guy has never bought me anything, not even for my birthday, the most I got was a card. He is working now, he makes a fairly decent salary and he can afford to help me out once in a while. WHen I tell him about stuff I have to do monthly, he usually says nothing or asks me how come I am so broke. That really hurts. Many times, I am so broke I end up asking my mom to help me out. I cannot go on like this anymore, how can I live with someone like that for the rest of my life? Help. what should I do.