yvonne0033

from my point of view-> i would just stop calling her and forget about this person. If she comes back, one day, issues solved maybe i'll give it a shot. but its not gonna be the same anymore. WHY is she behaving this way? woman are very weird; we operated based on out emotions. and sometimes, our emotions tell us: we don't like u anymore, simple as that. something u did kinda pissed us off or just knocked out the feeling. if a woman refuses to talk to u about something, she is sure, just don't wanting to talk to you period. and her life is fine without you. Best advice, move on. if you can't, stop calling her, and wait to see what happens. because eventually, you'll move on quickly too.

I THINK u need to MOVE ON. because obviously, he doesn't respect you and he makes you feel like you don't really exists. He thinks~ that maybe bring you dinner he's already done his deed But thats just messed up, you can't have him treat you this way. you deserve better and someone who knows how to cherish you and love you for who you are.

well, first of all, she's 18. thats really young for a girl, a girl will not have an orgasm until she's really experienced and knows her body. its more of a mentally and passion and knowing how to manipulate your body and soul. Its not because your penis is too small or you are not pushing long enough or hard enough. its not even like that........ i think you can try the whole foreplay, oral sex, toys etc... i mean its really not because you suck. its really she and you both need to understand how 2 make eachother comfortable =)

Its so hard huh? its like we are struggling with 2 parts of our brain: Realistically rationally, we know its not RIGHT for our X's to contact us and we should not contact out X's But.. emotionally we cannot control our desires to call them, hear their voice, and see how things are going.... Its almost like, sometimes we wish to near see our cell phones or we can not remember their phone numbers. ** sigh ** breaking up.... moving on.... from someone who you truly loved is so hard. I wonder, Can we LOVE someone like this again after being HURT>?

Confused _987--> i can understand your situation. You still care about her because deep down she is like an additional family member to you because of the many years you two have been spending together. However, you are no longer IN LOVE with her and YOU no longer have the passion for her. Why? because of conflicts and situations arise and loves kinda drifts away. Love is so hard to maintain and relationship definitely takes alot of work as well.-- and i think you two have reached this point which both of you don't wanna try to make this work and YOU especially, don't even wanna have sex with her, i can tell your heart is no long with her in terms of husband wife LOVE. you do care though.... also you dread of the whole break up process, everything seems so empty and everything seems so dreadful... and painful and need for adjusting. So, i see where u r coming from. My suggestion: --> break up with her and move on. WHY? because first of all, you don't wanna waste her time. She's got a whole life ahead of her. and since you two have walked until NOW, please let her go for good because she might still be able to find her own happiness. AND you TOO, have a great life ahead of you. =)............. why waste eachother's time.......... so much problems.. so many issues.. The very last thing, you gotta ask yourself is whether you are going to regret. SO, no regret, you tried and she is JUST NOT THE ONE !!! you will learn from it and make not the same mistake again. ALL of the financial , money, tv, etc.. these are not important. its things we get over with easily...... its your heart, look inside, what do you have left for her? ... think through, and make your decision. because we should never regret on anything we do. Hope everything works out =)

THERE is nothing you can DO but BETTER YOURSELF. Use all your free-time you have now, instead of spending with him, to Bettering your self =) make your self prettier, make yourself smarter.... enjoy your life... ya, easier said than being done. but i guess lifes' a * * * * * and we live with it. as life always goes on...

WHAT i don't understand is: If you love your current gf, why do you avoid her? i mean if you really do truly loves her and care about her; wouldn't you want to calm her down and make her feel better? i'm just speaking from a woman's point of view. I mean, i really don't understand if YOU LOVE and YOU CARE.. obviously, i think she still really loves you.. she's just in her Pissed MOod or something strange i dunno. But i think if you love you should communicate. I mean isn't it? rather than just being alone..... and let things be. Every relationship we go through-=- we GIVE and we Sacrafice. i really don't think you should let go this easily, and give in your effort and make her feel that you really do care. ^__^

if u know things are always going to be the same, like before, and will eventually ended up breaking UP. there is no point to get back! Don't be with someone because u r LonELy. its never a good solution.

u know its so true ^^ when a woman is seeing another man ^^ and she falls for someone else. There is no way back because someone else owns her heart. AND if that guy happen upon to break her heart . TRUST ME, she will miss you. And but THEN... you have moved on.. just think of it this way.

Here is a bit of my story and what i'm struggling with, really need some good opinions . Well, my current boyfriend of 1 year 1/2. The very first year, since i was constantly travelling around the world because of work. around new years 2006, he told me how much he wanted to marry me and have a future with me. So, i quit my job and moved to Taiwan permanetly to be with him. So, he said, we'll get married in march 06; blah blah blah. So, when i'm realistically here, we have been having some problems. Mainly because how he is treating me doesn't live up to my expectations. Because in my opinion, i feel that he should treat meif not even better than how he made me feel before.... and spoil me. But to him, he thinks that since i'm here now, he can focus on work. But he doesn't have a great career or anything, i mean... i JUST cannot feel the heart from him. that special heart and special effort, you will give. So, we have been pretty much having disputes since march, not to mention, no marriage, i feel so disappointed AND we had an abortion in april because i wasn't protected for the first month since i thought we were gonna get married. So much stories leading to where life brings me today. We have fought so many times and i have told him so many times about how i feel. HE THINKS that i'm not satisfied because i do not cherish him. However, i don't think that true. I think if he really cherishes me He would do things to make me happy. ANd he's lost that passion and lost that HEART>>> arghh.. anyhow, deep down i already wanna lean my heart somewhere else and move on. But i don't really wanna let go emotionally i can't do it right away. but really don't know what to do. I guess he still wanna marry me cuz we have been shopping for a ring.. but deep down... i'm not happy.... I am just not satisfied about how i am treated: Some small examples: one day i was sick, we walk into a drug store, and he bamb disappears and comes back with a shampOO and then stares at me while i pick out my own pain killer. Then i complain about it to him, he said. he went with me and he did what he had to do. He always thinks i'm complaining but yet, its just how woman's feel. we need that special passion. and to him, its like NO more High School stuff for me. =(... what should i do? I was giving myself until Nov, so if things don't work out, i'm going to mobve back to california.