LoveMatters
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Set up an incentive plan, like if you get A, you will buy..... Or if you get A, your parents will buy you.... or allow you to..... Or think about your futher education at a very good university. I always want to have a good grade so my parents and everybody around me will be proud of me.
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Obsession is ruining my current relationship!
LoveMatters replied to BunnyLove911's topic in Age Gap Relationships
I think he's too old for you. I think you like him before he's a friend of your father and you see him often. I don't want to say this but I don't think you will be happy with him because the age difference is too much. You might feel safe and secure with him but what activity you will do with him? And in the next 10 - 15 years? You're gonna be 32 and he will be 65? At that time you might need to take care of him rather than he take care of you. -
co workers says no car means no gf -what u guys think
LoveMatters replied to joe45's topic in Dating Advice
I think it depends on a girl. If she has been living comfortable life, always have someone pick her up and take her somewhere, she might prefer to date a guy with a car because she might not know how to take a bus or taking a bus is not comfortable for her. I think though there are many couple that happy with each other even though they don't have a car. So you don't have to worry about it. -
Relationships: why are they so important?
LoveMatters replied to jmantra's topic in Relationship Advice
I think people need someone to share something with, even joy, sorrow, excitement, etc. Did you every feel like when you're so happy or excited about something, you want to tell that to the persou you love or like so they can enjoy that with you? I think though we should never lower ourselves to be in the abusive relationship. It's not constructive, it's destructive. It's very nice that you can be happy with yourself. I think everybody need to love themselves before they can love someone else. -
Give her some time, maybe she is really confused and not sure what she wants. Maybe she needs more time to think thing through. Maybe being apart will make her realize that she can't live without you and then she will come back to you. Anything is possible. Have faith.
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I don't think love out of pity will last long. You might find someone who really loves you and wants to be with you. Don't you think if you stay with a person you beg to stay with, you will miss the chance to meet someone who really wants to be with you?
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When you're willing to do anything just to make a person you love very happy.
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Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you? Will you ever be happy if they stay with you only because you beg them to stay?
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Should you be with him at least a year or two before you're sure you want to marry him? A tip? do not rush him, he is still very young and might not want to get into a committment yet. Give him time, be a wonderful girlfriend to him.
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Yes time apart will help. You will have time for yourself and know the real feeling about yourself and your relationship more. Maybe being apart will help you realize that you can't live without him or you're happier without him. Sometimes people don't appreciate what they have until it's gone. Maybe he will realize this time how wonderful to have you with him.
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To need2bme, I like your advices.
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I have never experienced something like this but I agree with other memebers said. It's best for you to leave him. When he starts to abuse you physically, I am not sure he will stop. Especially, if he sees that you still put up with his abusive behavior, it might get worse. Talk to your kids, explain to them. They don't want you to get hurt if they know the truth.
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I look at your profile and it will be your birthday soon. Make a wish and maybe it will come true.
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You need a hug.
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I am not sure if I can link your childhood with your possession and obssession with your boyfriend. However, not only you that obssess with your boyfriend and get crazy when he ignores your call. If he ignores your call again, don't keep calling him, find something else to do to distract your thought from him. Keeping calling him that much might make the situation worse. Try to be happy with yourself and your relationship will be better.