Hi there,
Just want to say that I recently found out that my boyfriend had slept with a prostitute whilst away working for a couple of months.
Apart from all the usual emotional turmoil - humiliation, heartbreak, anger and complete confusion - it totally makes me sick that he actually paid someone to have sex - I honestly can't get over it.: confused:
He is completely full of remorse, he's sorry and is begging me not to leave him, he loves me, he's made one terrible mistake, learnt his lesson and will never do it again and although I have no doubt that this is true - I feel that I have no choice - even though I do love him, I hate what he's done.
All I want to say is, honestly - if anyone ever does find themselves in a position where they think they won't get found out - think very, very carefully. The truth has a habit of coming out. I think there is some kind of belief amongst some men (and I really am saying only some because I know there are a lot of decent, faithful men out there) - that having sex with a prostitute is not actually cheating because there is no emotional connection - it's a "business transaction". I can tell you from my point of view it most definitely is cheating and you cannot imagine the humiliation of finding out that your boyf had sex with a dirty ho. If you love someone - why would you want to put them through that?
My boyfriend has lost me now and even if we did stay together - how could things ever be the same? They won't and thereforeeee it's time for me to move on - painful and horrible as the whole thing has been - I'm sure there will be a valuable lesson for me when I come out the otherside of this.
xx
