WaltJeffries

The only way that you are going to heal through this is to have no contact with him. Give him the space he needs to sort things out in his head. If he loves you, then he will contact you. You are only going to achieve setbacks everytime you try and contact him. Don't do that to yourself. Believe me, I have made the mistake several times during my breakup. You have to heal through this. Take some time off between relationships. You need to find yourself again before you can be with anyone else. Think about this. If your ex did decide that he could not live without you then how would being with another man go over. Not well I would think.