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Hi aurélia shine, I was just reading your post and I know the feeling that you're going though. I just got out of a relationship myself and can't seem to let go either. I have the same feeling inside of me that just doesn't want to let go. I can't seem to figure it out. I feel like something isn't right. Anyway, the folks on here are giving such good advise better than I can right now so I won't until I figure out why we feel this way. Just thought I let you know that there's someone else that have the same feeling so you don't think that it's weird.

Thank you to all that replies. I will take it to heart and move on. I just fine it difficult right now and can't seem to let go. I am still living there but in another room. Yesterday, I come home and find the two hiding in her room naked. I didn't care for that one bit. The thing about all this is it was my birthday yesterday. I'm living there still because my name is also on the lease. The reason I have not left because I don't want her to take me down with her she fails to pay the rent. Yes, I got extremely upset yesterday and pulled a knife. My intention was to give it to them so that they can just put it through my heart so that they can see what they are doing me. All I asked of them was to give me some time to get over my ex and they couldn't do that. The one thing about the whole mess is that I don't think my ex is 100% lesbian. She's bi and right now, she's all caught up with a lesbian who is 100% lesbian and basically giving her faults information without every getting to know my ex. I have explain to my ex that she only knows this girl for no more than two months. I asked my ex what she wants and she can't answer me straight which leads me to believe that she's not 100% percent. She wants to see where this goes and she thinks it makes her happy. I do understand the fact that she's happy but it's faults. I'm trying to convince her that in order to ever make yourself happy is to look in the mirror and see that you're not alone in this adventure. She have 4 kids that needs her and they are all going down hill and she can't see it. Her mind is really cloudy at the moment and everything that she is doing is selfish by both of them. I don't know how else to handle this. I'm trying to be her friend but the things she does is making it difficult for me to be her friend.

Hi everyone, I writing here because i don't know who I can talk to to help heel the pain I'm going through. My ex and I have been dating for over 3 years. Recently we went our separate ways, but it wasn't on mutual terms. We split because she falling in love with a friend she met at a lesbian club. They've only know each other for no more than 3 month and she wants to pursue the relationship with this girl. I can't seem to let go of her because I've never been in love before until I met her. We were so happy with each other for the first couple of year until last year when things started going down hill due to financial trouble, not with me but with her. She says she's happy for coming out. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with her coming out. The problem I have is I know her well enough that it's more than just coming out. We didn't break up with either one of us having someone else in our lives, she was already seeing this new girl. Anyone?