madwire06

Me and this girl I have known for three years have always got on really well. We would be sitting around and end up huging for ages, and have kissed a few times. When we get on, we get on really well but then some of the time she will completely loose interest, or just completely blank me. She will talk about her and other boys in front of me as if tying to make it obvouis. Every time I try and forget about her she will dicide to become friendly again and I fall for it. I do really like and care for her but I have came to relaise that things would never work, as it is a emotional roller coaster with her often ending up with me feeling very unhappy Its hard to forget about her beacuse of all the good times we have had together. I guess what I am trying to ask is how do you go about trying to forget about someone who keeps changing their mind by not wanting to know you one minuete than acting best of friends with you the next. I'm not sure what advice I am looking for, but I would be greatfull for any.

Thanks for you reply AngelEyez, I would'nt say that she's really flirty with everone. Just to say that I did'nt actually ask Charlotte, she just came and and told me she had asked her. I will talk with Lizzy.

From my experence that sort of age gap would not stop two people if they like each other, and as Clementyne said is a compatibility. Would you say this guy was a mature first year?

Hi, I would just like to ask for some advice. There is this girl, Lizzy, who I went out with for a while about three years ago, we became just friends and have been good friends since then. Four of us, me, Lizzy, Trav and Charlotte have been meeting up and often spend time together. Trav and Charlotte both know they like each other so when doing things like sitting on bench they often get close to each other, lean on each other, hug and stuff like that. Me and Lizzy have recently both come out of relationships, both pretty short, with other people. Recently she has been doing things like leaning on me, sharing chairs with me. Today we were sitting next to each other and she lent right on me and our hands sort of sliped into each others and we just left them there. And we hugged each other (heads on shoulders) several times. I have feelings for her, and when Charlotte asked Lizzy what she wouyld say if I asked her out (they are sort of best friends) she said she was'nt sure, and has also said she might say no. Charlotte has told me she is not always open to her about liking people, and does not like admiting she does. She asked her this when I wasn't around. So what I am trying to ask his does it seem like she likes me considering what has been happening and what she has said. Just a little confused.

Thanks for your replies. I will talk with Lizzy about it soon as I can. I talked to her, but a few days after they broke up.

Ok so I have a slightly stange situation. Me and this girl, Lizzy, went out (dated) each other for a while, then just became gd friends. Recently someone has moved round here, Tom, we became friends. He met Lizzy and, i think she liked him a little, not completely sure, and he told me he liked her. So he as asked her out and they have been going out for 3 days now. Today I went with Tom to meet up with Lizzy, wen we met up He started to put his arms around her and stuff. He asked me to leave but Lizzy said no and asked me to stay, and told Tom that she wanted me to stay. They put there arms round each other and Tom started to put his hands on her backside and kiss her neck I went to leave them alone, and Tom asked me to leave, but Lizzy kept asking me to say. So despite how awkward it felt i did. Lizzy started to move and shuffle like she ws uneasy with wat Tom was doing, though I am not sure. I am just woried that Lizzy, who is a reli gd friend to me might be being put into a situation that she dosn't want. I don't want to get in the way if there is nothing wrongh, but I want to help her if she is not happy with wat he was/is doing. O we're all 14 btw. Gratefull for any help.