real1sttimer

Hi BBT, it takes time. I have no kids but split almost 5 months back, and it still hurts sometimes more than others. Take care

How old are you VJG13? Let her come after you, you tried your part. She seems a bit imature, but I don't know her age either. She always play games with you? Someone's feelings always get hurt, and I hate games. Wish you the best, but let contact you and if she continues to be like this, then move on.

I am praying she thinks this out over the weekend, and gives it 1 more try, if that doesn't work, I will say let's go our own way. When you spend time apart from someone you really get a chance to think on your own, and see all the positives outway the negatives. Listening is a huge part, and I fault both of us. It's sad to see her wanting out more than me now and before it was mutaul between us. She said she gave me chances and I never knew it would come to this. Thanks again

Hello. I'll try to make it short. I have been married a little over 3 years. I Moved out in Spring and we are still going over the lawyer stuff. I was fine the past few months and recently I know it's coming closer and I don't really want a divorce. We have no kids. We don't fight that much and many times it's over little things. We had a couple times talked about us, that those 2 times weren't going so great. I guess I am a bad listener also, need to improve on that. She wants out also, and said she isn't happy anymore, that this would be better. Spoke to her recently and told her I would like to work on it before the divorce is final. I asked if there was still a chance, even a little and she said it may be to late. We will talk again next week to talk a few minor things over still about the place but I truly don't want to lose her. She said maybe there is a right guy and girl out there for us both, but the chemistry doesn't happenb with someone all too often. We had it and it started fading. Need any kind of help or guidance if possible. I would agree to seek help, not sure if she is willing to try also. I'm on my last legs, and truly want to try to work this out, maybe we should have sought help when it wsa early, but I said I didn't need it, now I think we do. Thanks much and have a great day