Usually i would know what to do here its a given but not with this girl.
Here is what happened in the pass.
Known this girl through mutual people. Always heavy flirting involved and i feel heavy sexual tension sometimes its really weird im sure she does to too some degree. Started talking,kissed her the first night. Hung out a couple of times. In bed with her she wanted to mess around but I couldnt due to the alcohol . She took it the wrong way i think but did say maybe we should get to know each other better. Which was what i was thinking considering i just got out of a ltr and know how things go when things get going too fast. Eventually i tried to take her home 2 weeks later, after she initiated hanging out and we were flirting heavy all night. but of course she got her revenge and didnt come with me . Basically i let her know that wasnt cool. not in a harsh way but i let her know cause it was obvious and asked her if she was upset about the other night. at first she was like yes then said no.
We basically stopped talking after that (no returned text messages) for like 3 weeks or so. Heard she thought i was a jerk. Out of the blue she invites me to her graduation party. I end up going and talking to her for a tiny bit. she flirts but then again shes a flirt. At the end of the night we hug she says call me. I call her the next weekened. she answers. in my mind the way she was talking i thought we were going to meet up.
I get downtown later on and text her
Me: Im at xxxx
Her: Im at xxxx then going to xxxx
Me: You can come meet me here its like 1 block away
Her: I just left to xxxx
Me: Well if you wanna meet up lemme know
Her: Ok ill call you later (yea right)
since then i saw her out once I did not go up to her cause i felt no need.
about 3 weeks have passed. I decided to text her on sunday night while i was driving
Convo
Me: Hey how you dooin?
Her: Good how are you
Me: Freakin awesome just driving
No reply for like 1-2 minutes
Me: Just wanted to say whats up. call me sometime. later dude
Her: We should hang out this weekened
Me: K call me or ill call you
Her: ok
Maybe im looking to into this but first of all I wouldnt answer someone i didnt want or need anything from. and second i for sure would not bust out we should hang out this weekened if i really didnt have a desire to do anything with them. But then again maybe some people like to have someone call them and ask them to hang out to feel better about themselves. so im not quite sure where she stands
I actually got 3 questions. 1. We go back forth way too much how do i open up the lines of communication. 2. Should I call her or wait for her to call me?. 3. If i call her is it alright to say hey we should do something tonight, do you still wanna hang out? This is the last time im attempting anything with her. shes the type that doesnt want to get hurt and is somewhat protective of herself of getting hurt.
