tamej19

Well take it easy.Talk to he but don't be needy, listen to what she says and don't put pressure on her.

Thanks for the advice guys.The thing I was her first and she was mine so every time we see each other I feel a strong connection.I can't help it.

Hi! We were together for 8 months.She broke it off becouse she wasn't in love anymore.Then we were friends with benefits for a while but it didn't work out becouse we both started thinking about other people etc. After 2 months of not seeing eachother and a month and a half of LC we went out for a walk and ended having sex.We are both seeing other people but no sex.We both felt stupid after but the whole night was like when we were together...even better.When I see her I can't help it I just want to hug her and kiss her.She even accused me that I play with her.I could use some advice becouse I'm confused.In a way I still care about her but I don't know if it is mutual.What should I do?

Hi! I was wondering how would it seem in the dumpers eyes if the person they broke it off with would stood them up on dates even if they both agreed to see each other.

From your exp how long does it take to see some results of NC.By results I mean how long did it take for you to heal or make the other side miss you and wanting to get back together.None of us here are equal but I want to her a few opinions.

Hi! Me and my girlfriend broke uo 2 weeks ago.We had a fight and the other day when I called her to apolgise she said that she wasn't in love anymore and that she walt like that for a couple of weeks.Well I said to her that I still love her and that I want to get back together and then argued for a while.3 days after she sends me an sms wanting some old cd's back that I forgat about.2 days later I apologise for the argument and she suggest that we meet and talk.I went to pick her up and she all dressed up so we went to a quite place and talked for a while,she said that she doesn't love now but that she might love me someday.I started to turn her on and after a while we started to kiss and had sex.She coudn't believe that I got her into the mood for sex becouse she was telling all my friends that she is angry with me and that she doesn't want to hang out with me.We agreed on not talking about it with other people.Then she tried to make me jelaous but I remained calm.I called her the other day and asked her how she feels and if she wants to come over to my house.She responded that she feels normal and that the offer is temptive but she doesn't fell like coming over.She talled that we will see what will happen with us.I said to her to call me when she want's to.Now that's my situation I love her and want her back but her behaviuor is strange and I really need all the advice I can grt so please help me.