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Thats the thing heloladies21, these boundaries have been set for some time now. We do have arguments, she does get jealous, as do I and we do have our common problems. I however am sure I am no pushover to her, I make it clear if I am upset. The one thing though, I noticed that if I ignore her for a few days, she comes crawling back to me. Omg.. the ex just turned up at my door an hour ago there, my mind is going from bad to worse...

Thanks so much for your quick replies, what I shall do is arrange an appointment at a clinic and just try to sort out things with my friend. If she seems ok about still being friends and I can 100% trust her to keep it to us, I will just chance my luck and keep it to myself. My girlfriend is a very emotional person, she suffers with a problem mentally, although I am not too sure what - it confuses me so much as she sees everything from a completely different perspective as I do. The thing is, I treat her like a princess, I take her out all the time, show her more love than any other person can show anyone. I spend every last penny on her, I show her as much TLC as possible. And obviously by her saying she wanted me to "treat her right" hurt me a great deal. Your advice has been such a great help so far, it is greatly appreciated. I am going to start coming on this website and reading/posting to posts and see if I can offer anybody any advice as of what I have received that can make things more comfortable for others. Many thanks.

Hey there, firstly let me introduce myself. I'm a young 18 year old guy. I've been madly in love with my girlfriend for just over a year. Things have been going up and down recently, but we've always got on well. Here's the scenario, my parents go away on holiday so I decide to have a houseparty. All my friends were there and also my best friend called Ashley (whom my girlfriend hates). Ashley is a great girl and I can talk to her about practically anything and she is totally cool with it, although coming accross a little dirty at times. My girlfriend then calls me an hour into the party and tells me she wants to break up, so naturally I was upset and I just wanted to have a good night, so I just agreed to it and hung up on her. As the night progressed and the more alcohol i drank, I don't know what happened.. but I ended up sleeping with my best friend I can't remember much about the record of events, but I can just remember that my condom had slipped off. The next morning, I receive a call from my friend telling me how she felt so awkward being friends with me now and things should never have happened the previous night. She has been very distant from me and I feel so guilty. My girl has now told me she only said that to make me get my act together and "treat her right" and she still wants to be with me. What shall I do? I think the guilt will pass over time, but I am sure what happened wont leave my friend and I. And also, should I get tested for any sti's? Shall I tell my girlfriend? Thanks alot for your time and your advice will be greatly appreciated. Ste