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Ok, This is a strange question and really I wasn't sure where else to ask it and get an honest answer. "Would you use another persons "sex toy" if it were sanitised in bleach and boiled in hot water?" The reason I'm asking is because I was having this argument with my husband about how disgusting it would be to use some other girls TOY! He said "Well you were willing to put a man's thing in you that had been other places!" and he added " You let a man ejaculate inside you..isn't THAT even more disgusting?" So help me out here is it the same? A very convincing argument however, I still think that it is gross to use someone else's TOY! Let me hear your comments.

I appreciate your advice and it just so happens a friend of mine did that very thing for her husband. See she just had a baby and she has a three year old as well. She told me that she got all dolled up and went to a famous restaraunt near his job then she called his cell and said "meet me at such and such when you get off of work." I remember thinking what a cool thing to do. Then I get your reply saying basically the same thing. I would love to try this sometime for my husband however, there is one problem though. We both work at home together all day 24/7. So.. does anyone have a clue how to surprise my husband this way?

Why is it that when a woman finally finds the man of her dreams and is happily married she quits shaving her legs? It's not just that either. she stops dressing nice and wearing makeup and gains ten pounds. I'm scared that this is happning to me. My husband says he doesn't care if I shave my legs or if I wear make-up either. Yet, somehow I think that this is trend that too many of us married women fall into. There are so many more important things in a marriage I know, but why does he still look at the other women. They shave and wear nice cloths and look so cute. I feel like I am loosing interest in myself more and more everyday. My life is changing so much what with children and housework and homeschool stuff that I feel like I've lost the time too! Can anyone relate or give me advice?