jeg779

we have talked about it, and she says: I have just made some bad decisions in the past. . . I just want to take it slow, don't worry, its not you. I want to kiss you like no other, i'm just trying to have some self control for once in my life. . . That is reassuring. . . but I am still looking for a little guidence

I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, I am 21, she is 21, and we both agree that we make a great match. She tells me how much she likes me and stuff. Now, She and I havn't held hands, or kissed ...only hugs at the end of a date... It has been hard for me to stick with it for a month. AM i such a bad person? I can live with out the sex..but right now, we do nothing... I mean that in the sense of.. .two nights ago we were here at my apartment watching sappy chick flicks, watching all the romance and stuff.. Well she sits down.. with a 5 foot gap between us...and i move closer and i see her fidget.. NOw I am getting mixxed signals.. How do you deal with someone who wanting to take her time.. Because she has made bad decisions in the past. ? ? ? Any advice? FYI : We have both been in long term committed relationships before. . .

So, I don't think its fair for me to stay with my g/f 3-4 times a week, at her place, with out her coming to me just twice. All I ask for is her to stay with me twice a week. And she was cool with it, for about a week, and then, out of no where, she changes her mind and says, she's not going to be staying with me anymore, because she hates leaving the dog alone. THe dog sleeps inside and outside. I know she loves the critter, i do too. But Should i be worried about her not putting in the effort that I do? I break my balls trying to see her. And get very little in return, or so it feels like? thanks guys.