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  1. We have been toegther for 3 years and that's exactly where the nightmare started.
  2. The reason I broke up with her was because I couldn't take it anymore in our last argument in which the few scars on my face are still left as a result (from her long nails).
  3. The more I think about it the less pity I have for her. As for calling the cops I'm not sure how will they take it. Won't they be laughing that it's a girl doing this? I had broken up with her for 5 months already and well the first incidence was her throwing a glass bottle on my window (lucky I was no where near) and trying to get in by kicking on my door. Like I stated I never reoprted because I figure they would just not take it serious. I'll try talking to her parents about it tough.
  4. Hi I'm at a loss of what to think now and for the first time it's like I don't really care if she does it or not. However at the same time I feel like I'm going to be responsible for it. I'm fed up with it already. Is this another one of her sick games or she seriously about it because she never was a suicidal depressive person? While I was at work, I was told it was an important call and there was her voice, saying things about how I was her life, that she couldn't live without me and that she wants me back and how I would not be able to find another girl that loved me as her. She end up by saying "I'm afraid I'm going to commit suicide if you don't come back and it's going to be all your fault if I do". Just two days I got called by neighbors to come down and there was my car getting burn along with a flat tire. Obviously it was her again.
  5. Hi it has been a long while since I broke up with my now ex g/f (a bit more than 4 months in fact). Anyways I would like to know what you people think is worst a) Getting cheated on or b) Getting abused verbally, mentally, emotionally and physically on a regular basis. Reason I'm wondering is because back then I used to think getting cheated on had to be the worst of worst thing someone you love does to you. It sounds weird that if my ex had cheated at the time I would have definitely break up with her and get over it faster. I had no tolerance for cheating but did for abuse in all those 3 years (1 year of verbal/mentally along with emotionally plus 2 years of physical). At the time I would think that with cheating, it had nothing to do with you but a third person involve and deception but with abuse it was just you getting all the blame and trying to prove to them you loved them. In the end both cheating and abuse is degrading.
  6. A week ago I received an apology letter from her so this makes it the first time she ever say sorry. In the letter it basically states how she is going to changed and that everything will be different. The sad news is I'm still in love. The reason I broke up was due to abuse, in the last occasions I was left with my face scratched all over.
  7. I read it and sadly she does have almost all of the characteristics in the article. The only difference is that she only acts violent with me and not in front of other people, not even in front of friends and does not apologize anymore like she use to on the first couple of times she hit me, rather she turns nice afterwards. The more I'm reading the article the more sick I'm starting to feel and the more I'm thinking of ending it for good, not returning.
  8. It all started in our second year and 4 months into our relationship (now it's been almost 3 1/2 years). So it's now been one year. Now I have scratches almost all over my face due to her long and sharp nails, but I also did get punch and on couple of occasions I receive a black eye. I have never answer back though as I would never do anything to hurt her. I did try leaving several times a few months ago but she would come begging and crying to me to come back that it will be different or would say that I won't find another girl that loves me as she does.
  9. Unfortunately she sees nothing wrong with her behavior as she mentions how it feels when you're stress and too much is going on. She also says that I should know clear to get out of the way whenever she comes drunk as drunkness also causes you to react wild. That leaves me to take all the blame while she changes the subject when she's calm again.
  10. Is it normal to have feelings and still be in love with someone that sometimes calls you names, screams at you and hits you or could it possibly be insanity that allows you to still stay with them (I'm a guy by the way)?
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