__Hope
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Well..that was her on fault for that happening. Maybe now she'll have the balls to tell a guy to back off. Too bad it took that and she couldn't just listen to you..
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Where do you post when your like 5 forums fit the problem!!!
__Hope replied to alyx1's topic in Relationship Advice
I would say leave this guy, personally. What makes you think you deserve a guy that does that to you? I'm sure if you did the same thing to him he wouldn't stay with you and put up with that. You really need to ask yourself whether you really want to try or if you want to do what is best for you and your daughter. Your daughter can still see her father, that's no problem. but why be in a relationship where your guy is like that? If he loved you and your daughter, he wouldn't be doing this. No matter how many excuses and how many stories he gives you, you really need to think of how many times he has done that to you and lied once again. I know you love him, but just because you love him doesn't mean you should let him continue lying to you. He obviously doesn't care enough about you. You should love yourself enough to put yourself through this. -
Do you really think so?
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Well he's said numerous times now that he wasn't snooping, he really was trying to find a happy conversation between him and I..which..i don't see why he needed to see one?
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Just the weird thing is I did delete, like..I really did..I went through the process of clicking the email and pushing the delete button. I really thought it was deleted because I DID delete it. I swear on the bible. But for some reason it was still there and some how that's my fault.. This has happened to me before when I've tried to delete a draft and it didn't work...but today..I went through my whole email and deleted every draft I have ever made. I don't know, but it's just..EVERY SINGLE TIME we have an argument..he brings up what I did...like it's his thing of making it whatever he did ok and making me feel like you know what because of what I did. We can never get the problem I have with something he's doing because he's too darn busy bringing up what I did to him 5 months ago...
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Thanks a lot that really helped lady00. I have completely cut off communication with this guy. I haven't talked to him in about 5 months. He has tried to contact me but I won't reply. I tell my boyfriend to tell him I don't want anything to do with him. But thank you a lot for your advice. Should I just let him call me or him talk to me or should I call him? And, hockeyboy..I know he shouldn't..but I do it too sometimes...but his excuse was that he was trying to look for a happy conversation I saved between him and I
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It's b. And I know it upsets him, I do...and i've told him i'm so sorry for it, I've promised him never again, i've done this and that and it still doesn't seem to be enough. I just want to know what the hell to do in the situation of that conversation with that guy not being deleted and him getting so upset over me still having it when i promised him i deleted it. i really did...
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Well I can't really say that since i'm the same way...we're both jealous..we've tried to work it out but we both have bad attitudes and jealousy. I'm just not knowing that to say about the conversation he found with that I really did delete. I didn't JUST kiss him on the cheek..I also had a little bit of feelings for that person. So..he does have room to act that way...just not about this situation..I really don't want to leave him. I love him, with everything. I just don't know how to deal with this situation. I don't know how to deal with it, I don't know what to say...I don't know what the to do. ](*,) But thanks for your advice
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I don't want to leave him..I want to make this situation better...I want to know what to say..
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So with this situation that I'm going through right now..of him being mad at me because I did delete a conversation that some how didn't delete I should just leave him?
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And to answer your question, yes. We would be..that's why we don't do it...I used to do it..but he said it made me seem whorish that I would go around hugging guys.. But...really know...what should I do about this situation??
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I'm 16..he's 19. We've been together we'll say...almost 2 years. We're both the jealous type...so..I can say I would get angry with him too if he kissed another girl on the cheek. I just don't know what to tell him about this situation of me not knowing that the conversation wasn't deleted...My throat hurts now from yelling at him trying to tell him that I did NOT know it was there because I DID delete it...and it keeps coming back to the same thing of him saying he couldn't have handled the situation better because of the way it makes him feel and how I should have went back over my drafts to see if it was still there or not. ugh..it makes me so upset.
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Ok so, a while ago I cheated on my boyfriend. I kissed another guy on the cheek. Well I saved one of the conversations me and the guy had...which about a month or two ago my boyfriend found the conversation while he was supposedly looking for happy conversations I saved between him and I (my boyfriend and I). He got upset, so I promised him i would delete it because I didn't know it was there. Which I did..I got on my hotmail, deleted it and it refreshed the page. Well..this morning he wrote an email to me to which he said he had a lot of spelling errors in it so he went on my email to delete it so he could send it again with corrections. But, he ended up going in my drafts again looking for another happy conversation between him and I. And he ends up finding the conversations that I promised him I deleted. Now, I tell you..I did delete it, I thought it wasn't there.....but somehow it was. So we're having this big agrument over this crap and I don't know what else to say..I've told him i'm sorry he saw that and I know it hurts him but I did delete and I can't help that it was there. I thought it wasn't. But he thinks it's my fault and I should be saying sorry because when I deleted it, I didn't go back and make sure it was gone. Why should I have done that when it went through everything that it does for it to be deleted? I'm trying to tell him he could have surely handled the situation a lot better than he did. He started off with an email to me that said "God you make you feel like S***" and a text that just said "*sigh*..." I tried calling him about 20 times, I tried texting him..he wouldn't answer..and when he did...He just hung up on me. I don't know what to do. I'm so stressed out and don't know what to say. Ugh..please someone help...