ok well today i was in the my girlsfriends pool fooling around...and i asked her if we could have sex...she said no because we didnt have a condom so i asked if i could put it in there and then take it out (i am a virgin and i wanted to feel how it felt) so she said alright and she took me and put it in her vagina but it wouldnt go in...and i happen to be large. she also said it sort of hurt which i can understand but the thing is she said she has had once sex before...so i am little confused, is it possible for it not fit and if so will i never be able to have sex with her or is there something i can do to sort of widen it?
also i know i wasnt lubed or anything but the fact is it seemed to me it just couldnt go in no matter what just seemed like there was no possible way to get it in i also notice she was a little tense seemed to be a little tigher then usual so any advice on how to make them feel more comfortable and relaxed
thanx