anthony06

well, i havent tried diff lubes no....but i def do exactly what she wants me to in bed...i have a lot of faults be selfishness isnt one of em.

oh yeah, and PS...we do use lube but that stings and causes her a lot of pain also.

the title is kinda self explanatory. my gf and i are getting frustrated cause we cant have sex for more than like ten minues at the absolute most because she dries out and the friction is way too painful for her. the first part of my inquiry is...can this be avoided? is there a way to keep her wet longer? and the second...does this mean she's not turned on anymore? cause i was thinking maybe i could do something to contribute to the lubricatino level. thanks in advance everybody

Just to make u feel better...Not everyone thinks u were being nosy, judgemental, or overstepping your boundaries...Who would be able to resist checking out bizarre (sp) porn titles on the gf's computer?...I know if I saw that stuff on my gf's computer when I using it freely w. her blessings I would have done the same thing. There's a difference between being surprised by someone's actions and judging them....as for anything past moral support i think i'm pretty useless...you could try making subtle kinky gestures in bed and gauge her reactions to see if she really is into the porn she watches...

My gf went on the pill like 2-3 weeks ago. Officially she's supposed to wait a month i think before the pill is 99% effective. Everyone we've spoken to says 2 weeks is enough tho. I'm not sure why i'm posting this because for the sake of two more weeks I have no desire to risk getting my gf pregnant (we're 18 and in college). i guess i'd just like other ppl's input to out of curiosity. thanks!

hey, my gf literally gagged the last time she went down on me cause apparently my juices tasted terrible. i've heard that one can eat blueberries to make it taste better? is that bull? anyone have any little suggestions/remedies? i dont want the poor girl gagging everytime.

well....i've been doing the beckoning motion w. my ring and middle finger while fingering my gf and she likes that a lot but lately she nearly always winds up sore b4 its over. is there anything else i can do other than just do the come here motion? i mean obviously i've been doing it too hard if it hurts her but i'm looking for other ideas (other than doing it softer) so i can add some variance. and if anyone wants to share some other tips for "vaginal stimulation" i'll deem it i'd definitely be interested in hearing...i'm sure some other guys would too.

i wont lie i used to look at entirely too much porn. i still do...except now i think i look at just as much as every guy...like once or twice a week...but i think that it has given me a lot of misconceptions about what sex should be like and is now messing with my head now that my gf and i are having sex. like, i saw the dudes with their massive dongs and i think thats y i was questioning my size a few weeks ago in another thread. in porno, they seem to go at it non-stop until they've both came consequtively (spelling) like 5 times. my gf always wants to stop after one time and isnt horny again for like another 20 min's. she also def. does not moan and yell and stuff like the porno girls do. should it really feel THAT good for the girl? or are the porno girls just being sluts and making noise for the camera? before i came up with this little hypothesis it was making me question my mojo and methods in bed ...i read like every sex tips site on the net and they def helped out a lot in improving our sex butttt, still....i'm not getting a porno reaction out of her haha....i have a feeling that i'm right in my assumptions and it just took me a pathetically long time to realize the porno girls were only behaving like they were cause they were being paid to be like that but i'd like some feedback. this is true right? and just to clarify...i def am not missing the point of having sex...i'm not treating my girl like a piece of meat on a table or a porno chick. I am trying to relax and enjoy sex. (seems to be a common theme amongst respsonses)...i've just been questioning myself and becoming what i now i realize is, in fact, insecure w. myself due to the porn (assuming that i'm right). if it is normal for girls to moan and yell and want to have sex right after they just came then my theory is shot....sooo, i think i'm rambling...my question is am i right or wrong?...thanx!

yeah...amen to the lostinmythoughts guy...the more u hear a young guy talking about something (esp in front of a crowd) sexual like that the less credit u should give him...its all horse sh#t to look macho and impress...

i mean tlike an addiction not like an exagerration....my bad

dude man...no matter what age you are 4 times a day is WAAYYY too much. masturbation can very easily become a habit and then turn into an addiction. thats not an additction at all it is seriously like an exagerration. i startd in 9th grade and seriously got hooked...at the worst point i was doing it like 4 times a nite everynite...(freakin pathetic!)...even now, i'm a freshman in college and have trouble not doing it several times a week...it hurts your self esteem and is just gross....stop doing that sh@t so much man...do yourself a favor....

well i'm wondering if my style is ok cause i hear ppl talking about making their girls cry, go nuts, etc...i make my girl orgasm like every 2 times we have sex..and when she does orgasm her reactions arent anything like ppl have said their experiences are...

so, i posted the penis thread and most ppl told me i should have more confidence and worry more about the motion in the ocean rather than my size....a lot of ppl mentioned the motion/how u use it, etc. this question isnt a further demonstration of some lack of self esteem haha...but, theres so much talk about how u use/motion....i realize every girl is diff and the ideal motion probably depends on her mood anyway but...is there something idk here? cause all i do is try to get an angle to hit the g spot and progressively go faster. i'd like to be the best i can in bed so give me some insight...and not cause i'm insecureee haha...cause i love my gf and i want to learn as much as i can.

I have never met a guy in my life that wasnt into lesbians or bi's. I am too. I'm not attracted to them in person. but it is a turn on to watch them together in porn...its cause most guys have a mentality if one hot girl is nice, 2 is better..like the more the merrier. like saying $10 is better than $5 or something. he's totally normal...

i'm 6 and 7/8th's in length and i think like 4.5 in girth...i think thats mediocre but even if its decent i'm not very content with my size. does anyone know of any ways to gain size (esp. girth)? i've heard of exercises one can do but they require expensive devices and gizmos. i dont want pills or operations btw. thanks!

i posted a thread aboutthis issue the other day but i couldnt find it and idk what i did wrong. anyway, i want to go down on my gf but she wont let me. she says its not appealing sounding at all to her.but if so many girls/women enjoy it why wouldnt she ya know? we were virgins when we started dating so i'm the first to try this. i figured she was just gonna be shy at first but weve been having sex for like 5 months now and she'll only let me kiss her upper thigh. i dont want to pressure her i love her buttt, i would def like to understand her frame of mind better....y would she not find the idea appealing? how/can i open her up to the idea with out being a * * * * and pressuring her to let me?

i've been dating my gf for going on 6 months and we've been having sex for about half that time. she goes down on me but wont let me return the favor orally. she says she thinks its gross and not appealing. i want to tho and my attitude is if so many other girls enjoy it why shouldnt she. i feel like if she'd give it a shot she'd like it. i def. dont want to pressure her into doing something and would never...its not thattt big of a deal to me to go down on her but i'm curious...are lots of girls like this? is her fear of my being down there normal for girls who have never had that done to them b4? anddd, if i am right that she'd probbly like it once she tried it is there any particular way to get her to open up to it without pressuring her into it?

u said this was for the girls but they wouldn't know for sure...so i'll butt in uninvited....the same thing happens to me and it def. sux! i've found that it is, like they said, anxiety. u want to "perform" well or watever and it stresses u out. just try to enjoy the moment and chill out. if its really that important that u impress her/please her at that time then maybe she's not worth having sex with? not the point tho. the point is to just relax and enjoy. -peace

my gf and i recently took eachother's virginity but i think our lack of experience/knowledge is keeping her from coming. we've had sex 7 times now but i can only bring her to climax by doing the "come here" motion while fingering her. she seems to have no reaction to any kind of clitoral stimulation. i've asked her what feels good and tried every movement i can think of on her clit but she says it feels no better than me rubbing her elbow. also, she doesn't feel comfortable with me giving her oral so that eliminates that possibility atleast for now. intercourse also does nothing for her but we both agree its not a lack of size so i guess theres a problem with my technique there too. she swears its not my fault but i still feel pretty bad that she can't come. help me out if u can!