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serenity85

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  1. Thanks guy yesterday was really hard i feel like he is messing with my head i went with him to a job interview for moral support yday cos i felt bad for him then he took me to lunch and then a movie i tried to make excuses but im so weak when it comes to him he held ma hand n hugged me i just hurt n burned inside i have so many feelings for him why is he doin this to him and its even worse cos im letting him we didnt kiss or anytin cos i cudnt but i felt like there was moments where we cud have then he txt me in the evenin sayin im so attached to u grrr
  2. So after being my bf's best friend helping him over come his health problems like diabetes and his mental problems like dyslexia he dumps me 2months in to the relationship we have been so close and best friends for a year then one day out the blue he ses " i wanna be single" so i asked why he said hes confused i aceepted it and he ses we will never get back together - so it hurts so bad and i cant change how he feels so then we share the same group of friends so i have to see him and he still tries to hug me n hold me n hold ma hand n im too weak to tell him not too, iv realised hes not the one for me anyway long term future wise but then why does it hurt so much n why do i still wanna be with him?
  3. I really think you need to take some space of your own and figure out if u really want her back because all she seems to do now is make u unhappy, she seems really easily influanced by her friends, i think give her a month of no contact which will both give u guys room to breathe and think what u really want and then see her face to face and see how you feel.
  4. Ok so im really nervous now im going to have gastric banding surgery im 20 years old n weigh 18 stones and am 5ft 9 really unhealthy so i tried gym n diets but now surgery is the last resort iv paid 6500 for it and im scared but im also looking forward to being me again. Anyone else had wieight loss surgery and whats it like emotionally?
  5. yeh giver her space to figure out what she wants and realise ur not just somethin she can pick up n throw when she wants
  6. Thanks guys i dont lecture or nag him cos he gets that from his sisters and mum i try to suggest oh if u do this then maybe it will work out better because etc... but yeh thanks for the advice people much appreciated
  7. with the diabetes i think i will rop in my local doc thankss and the dyslexia is very sensetive im scared to approach it cos i dnt wanna loose him and u know what men and their pride are like
  8. I also had an insecurity problem have you ever really shared this with someone? what exactly are you insecure about?
  9. So i recently got with my bf and hes such a great guy except theres a few things we need to work on and i need some advice onn how to approach this A)He is a Type A diabetic meanin he takes injections but the problem is his diet is terrible and he drinks alchohol which is no good but iv told him to stop but he feels like im stoppin him from havin fun but im not im just worried about his health we have sat down and spoke about it so much and he says he wont but he still does everytime he goes to a party or something - he is 21 and im 20 B)I recently discovered he is dislexic and i dont know how to approach the issue without offending him, hes having a lot of trouble trying to get a job because of this and acts like its not even a problem when it really does effect him, i want him to get help but how am i meant to go about this when he doesnt want to help himself. Thanks xxx
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