Huntress

So, at the moment, I'm at my family cabin with al lthe younger generations of my family members. I have one gorgeous cousin, who is 21, who just recently got married to an awesome guy named Trey. Things at the beginning of the trip were good for them it seemed. They didn't really spend the first day at the cabin together, but yesterday, they were in their room the whole time doing what only God knows. After a while, one of Trey's female friends called him, and Cara (my cousin) got amazingly pissed. I mean, she even gets mad when Trey talks to us. so, they got in a fight, she , he held his temper and screamed at her a bit. He called her a and asked her what her problem was, she started crying and said that she was pregnant. He apparently went pale, and all she said he said was that he hated kids. She threw her ring at him, and bursted into the living room. He picked up the ring, and walked out like nothing happened. She tried to come after him, but he blasted up a Pantera song in his car and drove off. It's been about 6 hours. My cousin is so upset that she's throwiing up...Is there anything I should do?

So, my boyfriend has a job. A really, really good job that actually pays a six digit figure, and he's only barely 20. I am 30, about to hit 31. We were at a friend's place today, and we talked about college for a short period of time. He didn't seem to interested in going, but I however, think it would benefit us, especially him, in the future. I'm not going to force him to go, but what if we end up getting married abd having children? I want him to have a good education, and a little knowledge about families, and children if we ever have any. Thoughts?

Used to, when I was in my teens, and early/mid twenties, I only dated older men. I had a relationship with a 43 year old man when I was 27, it ended terribly. A year later, I began dating my sister's student, who was 17 at the time. When we had sex a few months later, my opinion was forever changed n younger guys. Now he's 20 and I'm 30.

Are you in an age gap relationship? Yes What's the gap? 10 years, 8 months, 17 days Did you freak out at first? A lot actually. I had been in a relationship with an older man that was 43, it ended terribly, and then I met Jeff (my boyfriend) through my sister, who taught him...Talk about freaky, a 17 year old guy with a 28 year old girl, we had sex when he was 18. Now he's 20 and I'm 30, going on 31. If your not, what's the biggest gap you'd tolerate? 12 years younger, 2 years older.

Well, my parents liked my boyfriend, the age gap wasn't a problem to them (I'm 30, and he's 20). They thought the tattoos were a bit of a bad thing, but they actually didn't mind the long hair or the weird (yer sexy) goatee he has. There is only one problem though. Jeff and I have sex quite often, usually 2-3 times a week, and they asked us not to have sex in their house. While my parents were both working, we had sex in their bed. I just feel like such a creep, having sex in my parents bed. The sex itself was amazing, it always is, but the feeling of defiling my parents wishes, and trust made it horrible. Should I tell them?

My boyfriend and I are perfectly legal (He just hit 20, I'm nearing 31), but I would like to know also, because we started dating when he was 17 and I was 28. We're in NY also.

I just talked to him and asked him if he would dress nice, he agreed, but he said that the nicest thing he owned was a baige shirt with brown stripes and some baggy jeans. They don't hide his tattoos. He has painfully agreed to buy himself one of those preppyish colored colored shirts, and my brother might lend me his athletics jacket. He said it would be a pain to wear this, but he'd do anything for me...Awww

So, I'm taking my boyfriend to see my parents tomorrow. There are several problematics. -He is 11 years younger than me (Most people aren't bothered by it. Myself included...He's such a hottie ) -My brother met him and doesn't like him. But they have different interests (My brother is a college athlete, and my boyfriend works at Guitar World Magazine headquarters) -My parents might think he's a Goldigger (Which is NOT true) -He attire is usually different from what my parents wear (i.e He has a few tattoos, long hair, etc...) I am so nervous, but my boyfriend is the sweetest, cutest, most caring guy in the world. I have no idea why I am so nervous over this. Does anyone else have a problem like this or am I solo?