EvertonFCFan

Hi guys, I have a sort of problem. A little while ago, I was introduced to this guy named Danny by one of my friends. He's a very cool guy and we had fun together, and we're sort of dating now. The thing is, I'm not really looking for a serious long-term relationship. I think this could partly be because...for the past year, I've been completely in love with someone that I can't be with..let's call him Chris. My friends have tried to help me get over Chris by setting me up with other guys. I know that no matter what I do, my feelings for Chris won't go away any time soon...even though nothing can ever happen. So I'd like to start seeing other guys that I CAN be with. I know that having an exclusive relationship with Danny would only be hurtful to him because I'd have feelings for another guy, but is it so terrible to just casually date him for a while? No major commitments, just sort of regular dating without attachments? And should I be upfront and tell him about Chris and my feelings, or should I keep it to myself?

Hi, Does changing and growing as a person usually mean that you're going to outgrow the person you're dating? Maybe I should elaborate a little. I know that everyone is constantly changing..even when you're much older, you go through new stages of self discovery and growth. But according to just about everyone that I know, I'm entering a period of my life (university) where I am going to change drastically as a person. Which never scared me, in fact I welcomed it. Until people began using it as a reason that my relationship will undoubtedly fail. My boyfriend's a bit older than me, mid-20s, and he's already been through the university life stage. He's already experienced the growth and change that I'm going to be experiencing. Even though I love him more than I've ever loved anyone else, I'm afraid that we're going to grow apart because of this. I didn't know whether to put this in age gap or personal growth. I know I'm very young (18 ) and I have plenty of experiences coming my way. I've changed a lot since I was 12 and 13. The one thing that never changed was the people in my life and the ones I cared about. My friends and I all changed drastically, yet we're still as close as ever. Is there any hope that my boyfriend and I can survive this new phase of my life?

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Edited, thanks guys.