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  1. Was a long hard 5 months, but I am finally over my ex, I recently also met a good woman I have a lot in common with, we have a lot of fun together, I don't even think of my ex anymore
  2. They have come on to you because they know you are heartbroken and vaunrable, it isint a "game" really, its called a piece of @$$, and guys know when an easy time and way to get it is
  3. I got 7 tattoo's in 1 month after me and my love split up, I went crazy, and now what im over all that, I regret getting them, so I suggest you wait a few months and see if you still feel the same
  4. Well that was more-so aimed at the dumpee's who have lost self-esteem and feel rejected, ect
  5. FROM EXPERIENCE - What is the point in stresing over somebody? Anyone and everyone can be persuaded, and manipulated, some just take longer to crack then others, I have managed to get women back, even after we broke up 10 times, after they left me for somebody else, after everything that goes along with a breakup and heartbreak, much like what I have read in these forums, it is all about timing, how you are going to take control of the situation, and if you are smart enough to do so, because the beautiful thing about the human mind is it can be changed, turned around, and tricked, so when people tell you to "let it go" or "get over it" "no way it will happen" thats a bunch of BS, if you look at it that way, you are looking at it as in your SO is smarter, and somehow better then you, if anyone wants to know anything further I have to say, just ask in this thread - Johnny
  6. Yeah it's hard for me to give advice on the situation when I am going through the same stuff lol, I mean hell, if you look down a few days ago I had a post regarding lighting my ex's car on fire and feeding her new bf his heart, I have been workong on pressing those thoughts down though
  7. Major I will also add that just by reading your posts you feel the same hell I do everyday as my situation was damn near the same as yours
  8. I dont't believe it anymore, I think it would have been better to hve never loved at all, I envy the people I know who don't understand what heartbreak and pain of love is, I would kill to have stayed pure and innocent
  9. Oh believe me it would be, but beating him into the ground would only give me jail time, so I figured I would rather work out then sit in a cell lol
  10. Major I have felt the same way you do, more so then others at times, but think of it this way, you are 18 and have about 60 years to find a woman, do't think about whats going on now, think of how much TIME you have, and be happy that you have your youth and health, I wish I could say the same for myself as I have mental issues as well as an incureable disease that will make it very difficult for me to ever find a partner
  11. WORK OUT, work out on a regular basis, it helps you feel better and it makes you feel drained like you just beat all of the anger out of you, I recently found out that my ex left me for a "guy friend" she had for awhile and I must admit I was going to do some hostile things, ex. Light her car on fire, feed her new lover his heart to him, and a handful of other angry things, altough it has been harder then hell, I found that working out and getting muscle helps for some reason
  12. Me and my ex were talking on AIM for a while tonight, she said a few things, one of being that she "Still loves me, real love", - And she told me otherwise a few days after we broke up to protect herself, she said her heart breaks all over again every time she sees me, and a handful of other things She isin't going back and forth between me and someone else either, I know this to be true, you see, me and her share an uncureable lifelong disease that controlls things like sex, who we get with, ect, so its not like that at all, I dont know, my head is a mess about things
  13. As far as I can remember I have always tried to top each ex appearance wise, if you were to see pictures of each ex gf over time you will notice a different on what "number" of beauty they would rank, thus it makes it hard to find a woman that I will actually hold on to, I know its wrong and I know that looks aren't everything believe me, but I feel that in the beginning outside attraction can be important, I don't want to think this way though, about having to top how good a woman looks compared to my ex, any suggestions on how I can force myself to get off this train of thought?
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