dismayed

I wish you well sparkle, but I think you are making a huge mistake trusting this person again. Salt I have read through sparkles postings saltwater. i am confuzed, what exactly does she need to trust this person about. I didn't read about mistrust, cheating. As sparkle hasn't come back about this i truly am confuzed. I am so glad that your BF has a job, perhaps now the burden of the financial strain will be lifted. Perhaps you will not need to go to the doctors and get on medication. That i agreed with nottoogreen and thought that was a terrible idea. No use popping a pill. One needs to sort the problem out at the core. Have you managed to talk yet?

nottoogreen You have joined this site in may 2006 and have over 1,700 posts. Perhaps you also need some real friends and not just the virtual ones also. Sparkle. You two sound like there is a comple lack of communication. Perhaps you need to talk to each other and listen to one another. Sounds like there is no trust or acceptance of each others feelings. I agree with the poster that said that it must be very hard for this guy not to have a job, and not that keep getting turned down. Sounds also like you are both severly depressed. That is bad enough when one in a relationship is depressed, but when there is two that must be very difficult for you both. Perhaps you need relate if you are in the UK. But it is sure thing that your BF needs to sit and listen to you and validate what you are feeling. Perhaps you need to do this with him also. I hope this helps you sparkle. Good luck to the both of you.