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No nothing was mentioned about us being friends after he leaves, I guess I just presumed we would stay in touch considering he's on my msn and myspace. But now he's blocked me. Thanks for the advice. Do you think that's what it is or do you think he's just lost interest in me and is avoiding telling that to my face?

Yeah we knew each other before this. He goes to my college. But he's leaving!

Me and this guy I like arranged to hang out one day, he knows I like him. However he never really told me how he felt, but according to a friend he said he liked me but wasn't sure if he wanted a girlfriend. When we met up we got on pretty well or so I thought... But a couple of days ago I went on msn and he went offline straight away, I didn't even get the chance to IM him not that I intended to but anyways, I checked on my sisters account and he was on. So he must have blocked me. My sister asked him why he blocked me but he went offline and didn't answer which cowardly indeed. I am quite gutted because the only thing I can see is that he isn't interested in me, what other reasons would there be for this? He's led me on...Arranging to meet me and talking to me lots online and initiating conversations before hand... it's all a bit childish. I sent him a message on myspace asking him why he's blocked me, was it something I'd done or said? and he's ignored it... And I know he seen it because he's been online since and it's marked as read. And just yesterday I found I'd been deleted from his myspace account too.

Okay... this guy knows I have a thing about him and at a mutual friends party the other week I caught him looking over and smiling at me at least three times ; once when I walked past when he was with his mates, once when I hugged a friend and he was standing some distance away.. I could see over her shoulder, and lastly when I was standing right next to him. Could this mean he is attracted to me as well?

I asked him about it today and he denied that I embarrass him! Weird... Anyway after that he asked me what I was up to and he asked whether I wanted to come to the pub with him. Thats good, isn't it? Thing is I wasn't able to go so I had to turn him down but I did let him know that I'd go another time with him. He went a bit quiet after that. Did I do the wrong thing? x

Theres an update! Read first post. ^^ x

Thanks for the advice everyone. I haven't spoke to him since he said that to me which was a few days ago. So yeah I'm trying to back off. But we go back to college tomorrow and I will probably see him. How should I act around him? x

What does it mean when a guy asks you how your love life is?...And when you tell him it's non-existant but you like someone he keeps asking questions to find out who that someone is? And that guy is that someone! In the end I ended up telling him it was him and he said. 'Aww thats sweet but why me?" He didn't say "Really? Well I like you to" sooo I dunno tbh. But I said I wanted to get to know him better and then he said maybe you should. So I asked him for his number and he was like 'Nice He's been on msn since and I've always been the one to initiate the conversation and when we've been talking on there the convo has been quite brief. I've texted him once too but he texted off his mates phone saying he had no credit. So I starting thinking he wasn't interested and I was v. confused so I ended up asking him straight out. Heres how it went: Me: u know the other week we said we'd get to kno each other, well do u want to or not? id like to but if u dnt have no interest then jus say and ill be fine with it. Him: well yeh course get to no each other, but ive been really busy recently havent had time Me: ahh ok thats fine then. if uv been busy. jus wanted to kno if u really did or not. was a bit confused. well when ur not busy anymore then u can tlk to me more if u want to. hope ur all ur exams went ok xx Him: sorry Him: didnt mean to confuse you What do you think? Do you think he's telling the truth or just using some excuse? Any opinions I will be grateul for. xx UPDATE: 15/06/06. Well, today me and my mate -whos also a mate of his- when up to the guy I like and he ran off! So I went and left my mate to talk to him. She came back later and told me she asked him why he ran off and he said it's because he was embarrassed in front of me. Whats that all about?? x UPDATE: 17/06/06. I asked him about the 'embarrassed thing' today and he denied that I embarrass him! Weird... Anyway after that he asked me what I was up to and he asked whether I wanted to come to the pub with him. Thats good, isn't it? Thing is I wasn't able to go so I had to turn him down but I did let him know that I'd go another time with him. He went a bit quiet after that. Did I do the wrong thing? x