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Nemo007

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  1. Just look up on google oral sex + cancer and you will find a whole load of sites that state scientists have researched it. I know men don't have a cervix. This is only for women. The equivilant oral sex cancer cause in men is in the throat or mouth and the penis.
  2. Yeah it is scary. That is why I am posting a topic about it. I don't want to scare anyone, I just want to find outmore information. I guess it is a very minute amount. Although people do say to use condoms and dental dams, most people don't. I've never heard of anyone using a dental dam when going down on their girlfriend. If you are with a long term partner, many people don't even use condoms.
  3. apparently everyone has HPV.....well apart from people who have never had sex. I wonder if it is a big risk or not.
  4. Hi everyone, Whilst searching for tips on oral sex, I stumbled upon an article stating oral sex can lead to an increase in mouth cancer and cancer of the Cervix in both men and women. Wanting to find out more, I googled oral sex + cancer and a whole load of info came up stating that studies show an increase risk. Does anyone know much about this and wether it is concrete evidence. It is a worry that this could lead to diseases such as cancer. What does everyone else think ?
  5. It is perfectly normal. As your skin is being stretched back for the first time the part that was protected is now more vulnerable so it will hurt a little. Over time and the more you have sex, the less painful it will become. Just don't go at it too hard in the beginning as to not make it too sore. Over time it will get better.
  6. It is not abnormal at all. I only started going out with someone and developping real feelings for people after Uni.
  7. Has anyone thought he may not want to do it becuase he doesnt know how to or is scared that he will do it wrong. This could be the reason. Talk it over with him and show him where you like to be kissed.
  8. Thanks for your help everyone. It's my 2nd time having sex. I know it rolls down fully even with the little bit at the top as the skin seems to go back so far you end up thinking it will never go back. It was quite frightening as the most sensitive area was exposed and if the skin had not gone back into place eventually by me helping to pull it back, I don't know what I would have done. I was thinking that maybe I entered her when I was too hard and if I had entered my girlfriend a bit earlier it wouldnt have rubbed the skin so much and pulled it back so far. I will see how things go and if nexttime it happens again I will see my doctor. Many thanks again for the informative posts you have all given me.
  9. We do lot's of foreplay so I dont think that's the problem. I have not been circumsized and am relatively new to entering her so as I go in, and I am fully hard, it pulls the skin right back and exposes the pink kind of area that is very sensitive, especially when rubbing inside her. Maybe I will get used to it eventually. Thankyou for your replies you have given.
  10. Hi everyone, I have a rather embaressing thing that happened this week. I was ready to have sex with my girlfriend and as I went to enter her it was really painful for me and the skin on my penis pulled right back and the exposed part was really painful as soon as it made contact and each time I moved. I had to stop as it hurt so much and then I was worried that it would not go back to how it was, but then after a while the skin finally went back to how it was. Anyone know what caused this or if this is normal. I don't want it to be painful. Thankyou.
  11. You are definitely not the only one. I like to get to know someone properly before anything happens. I think it is more special that way.
  12. No one should ever treat a girl like that. Keep away from him and find someone who truly loves you and cares for you. This person has no respect for you.
  13. I would reccomend some Veet cream that you can use every week or so. You just put it on and then wash it off. Always do a test patch first if you have never used it before though. Its a fast way to get rid of unwanted hair and you cant cut yourself like shaving.
  14. That's so romantic. Congratulations to you both.
  15. What kind of qualities do men really LOOK for in a woman? Intelligent, caring, mature and not too girly, able to have a reasonable conversation, funny. How do men prefer women to dress on a first date? I like a women to make an effort on the first date, just like the man should too. Something nice that the guy will not have seen her wearing before. Do most men prefer women who are extremely confident, or is shyness more appealing? Shyness can be good. Someone who is overly outgoing and too confident in everything they do can be off-putting. Make up or no make up? I like girls withoutmakeup. Sure, it can be nice to wear makeup and enhances your appearance, but you should like a girl with or without make-up. Do men really mind if the girl can't jug alcohol like him??? People shouldn't be forced to drink. It doesnt matter how much people drink. You shouldnt have to compare. Do you guys really hate holding hands?? If yes, why is that a problem? I love holding hands.
  16. Size really isnt important, and at your age you still have tonnes of time for things to develop. Once someone likes you, they will not care how big or small you are down there. It really isnt something the girl is going to be thinking about when you are both together. It is great that you are waiting and not rushing into sex. You still have plenty of time. A girl is more likely to respect you if you dontpush sex and instead get to know her, go out together, and have fun. you dont have to have sex at the start of the relationship. First get to know each other really well. And eventually, if you then both feel like you want to go further, remember that a condom is always needed for protection not only against pregnancy but also STD's. You seem a decent guy and I can sense you are willing to do the right thing by your girlfriend. Good luck.
  17. You seem to have a mature view on things and it is good that you know about the law and that you can not have uner-age sex. I think you should probably just take things slowly. At her age it is impossible for her to know what she truly wants in life and where she wants to go, so you really have to let things pan out over the next couple of years. If you truly like this girl, you will not mind waiting for her. Right now she must be in her most important period of school, growing up, etc..and her views on life may change in time. You can't predict where things will go so if I was you I would just be a good friend to her and then if things develop in a few years then you can see where you two are at. Good luck.
  18. I say go for it. It's worth giving things a go. You've only started a relationship so keep at it and just see where it goes. There is nothing wrong with an age gap like this and if you like each other that is the main thing.
  19. Get some Veet cream or Nair and do a test patch first. Works well and is easy to use about once a week.
  20. I've only just signed up here so dont know you but I know one thing and that is that when life deals you the worst and days feel like they will never get better, there is one thing and that is that they cant get any worse. There is always a way to change your life for the better and you have seen that it is possible. I wish you best of luck.
  21. Thanks for the info. I guess at the time we just didnt think about it. I think I will make sure a condom is used from now on. Thankyou.
  22. My girlfriend and I got a little carried away and didnt use protection. It was a day after her period and I think it is safe at that time as you can not get pregnant. Can anyone confirm this or is there always a chance ? I would be there for my girlfriend whatever happens, it's just I need to know so that if it did happen again, we would know if it is safe to have sex or if we should not at that particular time just after her period. Many thanks. Scott.
  23. Eating a propper meal beforehand will help you out. Also, I've found that you are less likely to get ill-drunk if you keep on the same drink. Changing to a million different types will not mix too well and you will get ill.
  24. Shaving will most likely make the hair grow back more pointy. A quick method would be to buy a hair removal cream such as Veet. Some people use Nair but I hear it's not as effective. If it's the first time you are using it, do a test patch first. Make sure you follow the instructions and dontl eave it longer than it says on the instructions. Then all you would have to do is apply the cream every 5 days or week. It's much easier than shaving or waxing and not painful either.
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